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Why did you cheat on your spouse?

SharingKayla · 56-60, M

I must agree with others, I love my wife with all my heart but know she needs more sexually than I can offer so I encourage her to explore.

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aboveaverageaveragejoe · 51-55, M

@JFinch Come on over :)

SalttyDawg · 70-79, M

@JFinch
I need to get to know your hubs 😉 I don’t mind him watching us 😛

assemblingaknob · 26-30, F

@SharingKayla it's not cheating if it's part of the contract. I'm asking about cheating.

HeartlessLove

Oh boy....well once i felt the pain and humiliation of being cheated on...i had to decide was i going to become a cheater to...and i did. But it was a decision i made independently...and once i gave it more thought i also did it because i didnt want to necessarily break up with the person even though they wasnt the right fit

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HeartlessLove

@assemblingaknob i agree, i also keep a careful eye on myself but that is apart of self love as well. There isn't much wisdom in the minds of men so i stick to the road less taken

assemblingaknob · 26-30, F

@HeartlessLove you're a rare gem among humans

HeartlessLove

@assemblingaknobif you like, we should chat more, i could honestly benefit from a woman asking the hard questions who actually cares about the answers given, bother me whenever you like

Ducky · 31-35, F

We’re in an open marriage. My relationship with my fwb ends the moment my spouse is no longer comfortable. But she still actively encourages it, so…

assemblingaknob · 26-30, F

@Ducky it's not cheating if it's part of contract.

LoneVoice

I never did. Not even on a girlfriend. I've done a thing or two that I am not proud of, but cheating is not one of them.

Suggestmeone · M

I got involved with one woman in particular but totally online. No excuses or dumb reasoning, it is no difference than if I had met up with her. I have never had any thoughts of cheating, over alot of years, it just came along at a very lonely time for me and it was like an upper to my days. I have gone thru her cheating with my best friend years ago and it was never the same since. I found out what loneliness was then and now.

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

I didn't tho

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@CountScrofula you mean to say..all this time we have been speaking, you havent harbored secret feelings for me 🥺😵😪

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

@foldedunfolding Any SW crushes I take to the grave <3

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@CountScrofula that was the smoothest effin answer ever hahaha

JFinch · 41-45, F

People have different reasons.

exexec · 61-69, C

My wife did all of her cheating when we were dating in college. It was because I was not available and she needed sex. After we married, everything she has done has been with my permission, so does not qualify as cheating in our opinion.

jackrabbit10 · M

it was there,, it was free ,,it was good,,some better that others,,

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assemblingaknob · 26-30, F

@jackrabbit10 did you have a conversation with it with your spouse before marriage? Open marriage is a thing.

jackrabbit10 · M

@foldedunfolding sorry about the commas and period. Guess that why I never finishes the third grade,,

jackrabbit10 · M

@assemblingaknob the way I met my wife. I was at a party with one of her friends, I had been dating for some time. Also having sex with.. my wife knew I was a male Hore when we got married..

YukiSohma · 26-30, F

Too good at video games, couldn't win otherwise! 😫

I've never been married, just assuming you don't specifically mean marriage wise, but maybe you do in which case ignore this comment.

SW-User

Validation, hero complex, despair, lust, lack of self discipline. Just a guess. I've been tempted but just never caved.

Baremine · 70-79, C

I wouldn't give my wife the satisfaction of knowing I cheated on her. Not to mention I wouldn't want her to have to go through the pain I had to when she cheated on me. I don't care how many justifiable reasons there where it was still bad judgement. It took 30 years to rebuild the trust.