It means he just wanted some side pussy.... alot of married guys want that but only a certain number actually go for it....and She's a fool takin him back... once a cheater always a cheater

What an idiot. If you're going to be unfaithful in the first place, then control your guilt and keep your mouth shut

First, "you men" is a little bit much.
And of COURSE you'd say, "Kick him out." You don't have any skin in the game. It's easy to stand on the sidelines with something like this.
If you're her FRIEND then you listen to WHY she wants to try and make it work. She might have some very valid reasons. If they're not valid, and are coming from a place of insecurity, then you let her know that she's strong and can make her own way.
My two cents.

It's their relationship. Careful not to get caught in the crossfire.

I guess he did it purely for pleasure?

It means he doesn't care about the person -- it was just sex, not love.

And I think she should let his ass go, because she if she lets him get away with it once, he'll do it again. IJS

I think there are some things you cannot convince a woman of, one of them being whether or not to stay with their partner.

[c=#BF0080]I'm sure it meant something. He's just sugarcoating it. He did it and liked it and would do it again and again if his wife had no issue with it.[/c]

How old is he and the women he was having an affair with?

LOL - He was not thinking with his head, he was feeling his emotions/hormones -- unless it was some kind of anger or revenge thing.

Better he told her before she found out, but huge screwup on his part.

Forgive, possibly. Trust, only after long hard road. Forget, never.

If she does give him benefit of doubt, then second time and he''s toast....

He loves her but he f*** somebody else is she really going to let that love come between a f*** I think she should apologize

First, there's a big difference between forgiving him and trusting him or taking him back. She SHOULD forgive him....for herself. Whether she should trust him or take him back is a far more difficult question to answer. However, it should be something SHE decides, not others for her.

She has to come to her own conclusion about it, even if you tell her not to take him back she might any ways. Sometimes people just need to see things through their own way and sometimes that means the painful hard way.

She should tell him she cheated on him & that the sex was actually better than with him but that it didn't mean anything 😂😂

What do women say when they cheat?

whose to say he wont do it again. if you were disloyal before why wouldnt they get the urge and do it again

Men separate love from sex almost completely. When one woman satisfies both those needs, everything moves along swimmingly.

Well it definitely means something. But maybe they can still repair the relationship. Watch her and see how she is doing with it.

if it does, she should tell him it means something to me. *foot makes contact with his butt*

If he did it once and she forgives him , he will do it again . If he says it didn't mean anything , it was just for sex .

Meaning there were no emotional feelings invoked it was just the sex

I agree with you..
kick him to the curb..
once a cheater, always a cheater.

Does the name JOHN BOBBITT ring a 🔔

This!
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There are a lot of woman who take them back.If she can trust him again ,go for it .But, I will bet anything that when the smoke dies down ,he will be right back to the OW .'Just saying'

Have you thought about posting some photos up on your profile?

I say it's just a way to make it seem less than what it is.