So my best friend's hubby has an affair behind her back...

He then comes clean about it telling her all the details but adds "It didn't mean anything"..."It's over, I love you and only want to be with you...will you please forgive me?"...She is considering forgiving him - I told her to kick his cheating ass out the door...She asked me why I would say that?

My question to him would be..."WTF do you or you men mean when you say "It didn't mean anything?"...Please explain?

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Ynotisay · M

First, "you men" is a little bit much.
And of COURSE you'd say, "Kick him out." You don't have any skin in the game. It's easy to stand on the sidelines with something like this.
If you're her FRIEND then you listen to WHY she wants to try and make it work. She might have some very valid reasons. If they're not valid, and are coming from a place of insecurity, then you let her know that she's strong and can make her own way.
My two cents.

mysteryangel · 51-55, F

@Ynotisay: I apologise of course I don't mean all men, just the kind that do what he does. Good advice also, thank you :)

Ynotisay · M

@mysteryangel: You bet. And just to toss this out there, no need to apologize for your thoughts or opinion. :)