So my best friend's hubby has an affair behind her back...

He then comes clean about it telling her all the details but adds "It didn't mean anything"..."It's over, I love you and only want to be with you...will you please forgive me?"...She is considering forgiving him - I told her to kick his cheating ass out the door...She asked me why I would say that?

My question to him would be..."WTF do you or you men mean when you say "It didn't mean anything?"...Please explain?

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Longlegs2014 · 61-69, M

LOL - He was not thinking with his head, he was feeling his emotions/hormones -- unless it was some kind of anger or revenge thing.

Better he told her before she found out, but huge screwup on his part.

Forgive, possibly. Trust, only after long hard road. Forget, never.

If she does give him benefit of doubt, then second time and he''s toast....