True ?

You make good sense and arguments...

there is evidence from evolutionary biology and mating strategy that male female attraction have differences in what attracts us

I think that true to a point
But what you said defo is true also
And I think the more we think men and women are different in ways the more we are alike

@yeronlyman: I'd guess what helps make it more complicated is that, being sentient creatures with the ability to reason and think as opposed to act only by instinct and reflex, we've developed an entire [i]sexuality[/i] which is different from the primal instinct just to have sex for procreation, as is hardwired into most animals' brains. We do things like date and try to form intimate relationships with other humans, and marry for life. We're very weird. And we want other people for different reasons specific to us and our personalities and lifestyles.

It isn't "girls lie" or "boys lie." It's "scumbags lie." And most people are scumbags.

@BlueMetalChick: yes defo both men and women

Not sure I'd say scumbags
It's a human trait... not one for us to be proud of though

:)