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Was she hitting on me??

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So I have a particular coffee spot that I have been going to off and on for about a year now. They host a few events every week. I've gotten to know the staff and the host and a few of the artists that frequent this place. So, a woman I've known pretty much since I've been in attendance was chit chatting with me as per usual and in the middle of me talking she stops me and says

Your so beautiful, you're stunning. When I see your pictures on line and Everytime you come in your face just floors me. It's your eyes and your skin, it's really gorgeous 🥰. I'm sorry I don't mean to make things weird.....

But I wasn't weirded out at all because I'm used to giving and receiving compliments from people I consider friends....

So why was it weird for her? And why was she gushing like that over my appearance when we see each other almost every other week??

Was she hitting on me??
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Convivial · 26-30, F
Is that the real question or is how you feel about it the real question?
MizzO · 31-35, F
@Convivial nope that is the real question. I'm really not into women at all not even a little bit
MizzO · 31-35, F
@Convivial but I would hate to be misleading people on accident
Convivial · 26-30, F
@MizzO then whether she's hitting on you or not is irrelevant...
MizzO · 31-35, F
@Convivial well if she is I would want to be direct and put an end to any misleadings and if she's not that might be offensive so I didn't want to just jump out there and shut things down if they weren't actually happening
Convivial · 26-30, F
@MizzO you are not responsible for how they feel of if they're attracted to you... That's on them
Convivial · 26-30, F
@MizzO just be you... If she's putting out feelers and you're not responding she'll understand