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JackBoston · 46-50, M
It’s definitely harder than I was hoping for. But maybe it’s me? Lol
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@JackBoston No you're just seeing what most of us see - that later in life we have so much life experience and baggage that our focus on what we want compared to what we don't narrows a lot because we refuse to accept and tolerate shit in our lives that as a much younger person we might have accepted or not even picked up on in the pursuit (for some) of Real Love (tm). In older years (50+) that Real Love (tm) is really just a myth because you can never be good enough for other people in a romantic/intimate/sexual sense as people become less tolerant of narcissism, etc.