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BlueVeins · 22-25
Yeah. When the trust is gone, it's over.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
I tried to make it work when my x cheated on me and she cheated with 3 people that's how much I know but she didnt want it to work so she took the easier way out instead of dealing with her guilt so she moved on so then she took up a massive resentment towards me cause I found her out so she started blaming me then .
That's the 1st part I know this woman then and she took a disliking to me not that I care too much about but she was very jealous of me and she would try and put me down in a snakey way but what I realized about jealousy is that behind that theres something she's not dealing with in her in life so she then takes a resentment towards me out of jealousy cause she not dealing with herself. That's where jealousy comes from so they try put you down then from there stuff . I dont really care these days who has resentments towards me and there was this woman I knew and she said to me some are sicker than others .
I'd never run and race after a woman again cause before it cost me a lot of money but more better it nearly cost me my soul and what I realized is that theres no price over your soul
That's the 1st part I know this woman then and she took a disliking to me not that I care too much about but she was very jealous of me and she would try and put me down in a snakey way but what I realized about jealousy is that behind that theres something she's not dealing with in her in life so she then takes a resentment towards me out of jealousy cause she not dealing with herself. That's where jealousy comes from so they try put you down then from there stuff . I dont really care these days who has resentments towards me and there was this woman I knew and she said to me some are sicker than others .
I'd never run and race after a woman again cause before it cost me a lot of money but more better it nearly cost me my soul and what I realized is that theres no price over your soul
wackidywack · 22-25
it depends on you. personally if you pull shit like that, I'll cut you off
Spoiledbrat · F
I wouldn’t date someone who talked to me that way. @wackidywack
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SW-User
Yes it should! Promises were broken!
It depends why the person who cheated did so - sometimes, the relationship is already dead before the person embarked on the affair... and breaking up is the kindest thing to do.
Virgo94 · 26-30, F
Yes. For me anyway. Once you cheat in me, that's it. I no longer trust you and I'm sure it'll happen again. A relationship can't come back from that.
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SW-User
I think if both people cheat on each other they can sort things out. 😇
Elessar · 26-30, M
@SW-User It doesn't work either, indirect experience from a friend of mine. They eventually split up.
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SW-User
@Elessar Definitely the respect is lost when people do that. They might become FWB tho
Elessar · 26-30, M
@SW-User FWB with an ex sounds like a recipe for trouble to me, but idk. Last time I checked they reciprocally told each other to get f*cked, and the both of them followed the advice quite literally it seems lol
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
for me yes, i will hold onto that resentment and i will never be able to trust you the same again
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SW-User
It depends on what each benefits from their relationship .... if there are benefits.. yes
MiserableAtBest · 22-25, F
Yeah no, I don’t hand out second chances when it comes to shit like that
Depends on why it happened and how I feel about them
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@PepsiColaP Like if I said I tripped and my penis fell into her vagina?
@StevetheSleeve hate that when it happens
Johnblackthorn · 56-60, M
We worked through it from 15 years ago, I personally wouldn't recommend it.
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
I have no time for cheating so it would be the end for me.
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
I think it really just depends on the couple
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@SW-User I was referring to the Middle East. Let’s just work on changing the world. I’ll help.
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SW-User
@KrackerBash i mean, you saved the tweet
Yes. So I could worship and dehumanize women. Definitely not to pass on as a joke. @SW-User
PoetryNEmotion · F
It is a deal-breaker for me. No discussion required.
dragonfly46 · F
If it were only that simple. Never is.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I know couples who have worked through this and have grown into a stronger relationship than they ever had before.
And I know many more couples for whom cheating was the end of the relationship.
And I know many more couples for whom cheating was the end of the relationship.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@DrWatson How could someone ever trust a cheater again? I could not.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@PoetryNEmotion I cannot speak for others' marriages.
Jammy · 51-55, M
Remove from relationship.
Spoiledbrat · F
Not always. Everyone’s relationship is different and some are lacking. I could forgive someone for cheating on me if my relationship with them was seriously lacking in some way. It would just depend on how and why.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Not necessarily. It may be that the cheating reveals cracks in the foundation of an otherwise stable relationship, or it might bring the whole edifice tumbling down.
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SW-User
for me, cheating is unforgivable. i’ll never cheat and i expect the same back. if a man betrays me, it’s over. under no circumstances will i ever give him a chance to be with me again.
Ynotisay · M
It never happened to me but it would be over if it did. And that's because lies would more than likely be part of it. That's a non-starter for me.
HijabaDabbaDoo · F
Even if I tried to move forward from it, I know ultimately any trust we had would be gone so it'd only be a matter of time before the relationship would collapse.
OnePatheticClown · 51-55, M
I was so needy I made the mistake of letting it slide after some crying and sobbing...🤡
PoetryNEmotion · F
@OnePatheticClown How does that feel now? Did you make a mistake?
OnePatheticClown · 51-55, M
@PoetryNEmotion felt like a clown after it happened again...and again...
Its shouldn't happen but if it does its up to the innocent party if they wish to take offense or forgive
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
I think it depends on the circumstances, the willingness to change/resolve/repair.. and the relationship
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
It's rare but I have heard of people staying together and getting their act together after cheating.
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SW-User
i'm not hardcore about it. it all depends, but i'm open to more than one option.
Vetrov · 61-69, M
There are as many different levels as there are circles of Hell 😩
More work through it, than succumb to it
deadgerbil · 22-25, F
It'd be very difficult to negotiate.
Elessar · 26-30, M
If you ask me it's a yes.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
YES!
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OogieBoogie · F
One has to define what classifies as cheating between partnered people first .
And then what attitudes each partner have towards it.
For some ....its a kink.
I found out myself that cheating wasn't a about sex only.
It was about lies, Greed, deception, finances and lack of truth .... even attention.
When a partner spends all their free time with another person of my gender ...day.....and night.
Even tho he claimed he didn't fuck her ....something like 4 days and 3 nights straight being with another woman....was not only a shock to me, but deliberately cruel on his part.
If he did or didn't fuck her didn't matter ....it was his mentality behind it....total deal breaker.
And then what attitudes each partner have towards it.
For some ....its a kink.
I found out myself that cheating wasn't a about sex only.
It was about lies, Greed, deception, finances and lack of truth .... even attention.
When a partner spends all their free time with another person of my gender ...day.....and night.
Even tho he claimed he didn't fuck her ....something like 4 days and 3 nights straight being with another woman....was not only a shock to me, but deliberately cruel on his part.
If he did or didn't fuck her didn't matter ....it was his mentality behind it....total deal breaker.
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empanadas · 31-35, M
depends on the relationship