should cheating result in end of relationship?
can things be negotiated even if your partner cheats on you or would you just remove them from your life?
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OogieBoogie · F
One has to define what classifies as cheating between partnered people first .
And then what attitudes each partner have towards it.
For some ....its a kink.
I found out myself that cheating wasn't a about sex only.
It was about lies, Greed, deception, finances and lack of truth .... even attention.
When a partner spends all their free time with another person of my gender ...day.....and night.
Even tho he claimed he didn't fuck her ....something like 4 days and 3 nights straight being with another woman....was not only a shock to me, but deliberately cruel on his part.
If he did or didn't fuck her didn't matter ....it was his mentality behind it....total deal breaker.
And then what attitudes each partner have towards it.
For some ....its a kink.
I found out myself that cheating wasn't a about sex only.
It was about lies, Greed, deception, finances and lack of truth .... even attention.
When a partner spends all their free time with another person of my gender ...day.....and night.
Even tho he claimed he didn't fuck her ....something like 4 days and 3 nights straight being with another woman....was not only a shock to me, but deliberately cruel on his part.
If he did or didn't fuck her didn't matter ....it was his mentality behind it....total deal breaker.