That used to happen to me all the time with the 3rd ex. Little did I know, at the time, that the doubting and the accusations were giant red flags...that there was something very wrong with HIM. It took forever for me to figure it out. Those were just the beginning signs of domestic abuse, which, typically, escalates.
i would be annoyed that it's happening again and get out of the relationship.
he's either too untrusting which makes the relationship go nowhere or he's guilty about seeing someone else himself and so paranoid about it, he's accusing me of doing the same thing.
In my past, when they continuously accuse me of something I'm not doing, they're either telling on themself, or way too insecure to be in a relationship. Either way it's a deal breaker.
I'd tell the person that the truth always comes out, so if he thinks you're really cheating, he will find out at some point. Ask him what he's basing it off of, multiple clues, or his own paranoia
@ihavenoone I was made to give my husband yet another chance, in spite of the abuse that I live with - now, I can't wait to get out the first chance I get.
@HootyTheNightOwl i am sorry to hear that. it's really worst if there's abuse happening. i hope you get out and be happy, you deserve it. how is it going? hope you're doing well
@ihavenoone A lot of the time, it's only the love of my other man that sees me through.
Only Friday, I was told by a nurse that I am overweight - so I asked her which of the two sandwiches I eat a day she wants me to cut out of my diet. She stopped trying to advise me on my diet.
Seriously, I’d wonder about two things; For the partner: Why stay in a relationship with someone you don’t think you can trust ? For you: Why stay in a relationship with someone who clearly doesn’t trust you ? 😳
