Doubting and accusing

If your partner is doubting you that you have someone else but you are not guilty and you're faithful. How would you feel? And what will you do?

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Ksmile14 · F

I'd wanna know why she thinks that way and what I did to make her suspicious. Then I'd just tell her it wasn't true...

If she believes me...wonderful. If she doesn't, I'd wanna find out what did I do to lose her trust and how--or if--I could win it back. :(

ihavenoone · 31-35, F

@Ksmile14 i really hope that's so easy. I've tried that and won't believe me and keep asking me many times which is annoying because i didn't do anything swear to God. I am working from home and we're always together a live in partner. I don't go out without him. I even separate myself with my relatives just to be with him. It's actually his crazy thoughts that makes him lose his trust and think bad. It's been 5 months and I really cant tolerate this. I don't know what to do.

Ksmile14 · F

@ihavenoone if you have to separate yourself from your family just for him, and you don't go anywhere without him, and HE's the one who is making accusations--and for five months!!!--then you need to get out of that relationship NOW!

He's a controller. He'll never trust you and all you will do is love for him, serve him, please him. It's all about him, and you need to get out.

Sorry....but that's how it looks. *HUGS* :(

ihavenoone · 31-35, F

@Ksmile14 yes, that's right. thanks

Ksmile14 · F

@ihavenoone I hope it works out...but please get away from him. He is not good for you. *hugs*

ihavenoone · 31-35, F

@Ksmile14 i am trying. actually she is a nice person. but her jealously is worst. i just don't want to lose her as friends at least.

Ksmile14 · F

@ihavenoone You may have to....cuz jealousy and good relationships don't go together