Where are all the fun, sexy, healthy men over 45?

I don't know about those over 45, but certain "fun, sexy, healthy" ones near that age are definitely not a figment of your wicked imagination . ;)

@Nunlover: did what

@Shayama: get a room 🤔

@Nunlover: lol

@HoraceGreenley: You seemed like I had offended you with my remarks. If I am incorrect, then I do apologize. If not, not a problem. People are so into appearances even on-line...

@PoetryNEmotion: I was not offended in the least. I don't care about appearance.

Please play nice sweet friends.

Didn't ask.

@Flutterby9812: 💋 you didnt have to. i can see it in your eyes

@DuchessOfMapleSyrup: lol

@HoraceGreenley: smile babe. She's my friend.

[c=#BF0080]Hahaha! Horace and agreatday are my friends as well.. they know I'm kidding, I think lol. Heck, I'm almost 40 myself lol. [/c]

@pinkrainbowkisses: yes we are friends. But I am not letting her off the hook that easily! 😂

@Flutterby9812: And you? Enjoying yourself again?

@Living-wellish: working on it.

@Flutterby9812: 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 Good for you!

Nice to see one

@Flutterby9812: I think there are couple others, not many though, Political Correctness killed most of them off.

@DownTheStreet: lol

Which one are we missing?

That was my fun side; I have the three.

@Wilbury: awesome!

I can see that.

Was just asking. Lol. I have no idea what you look like.

@Flutterby9812: I've got a few buddies who are successful, good looking and great guys. The reason they're single (and again, nothing personal) is that it's not worth the hassle. That's how I feel too. A lot of guys just don't need a woman in their lives to "complete" them. Some playful fun? Absolutely. But the weight of a relationship? Most of us have been there and done that.
I'm SURE there are men around you who think differently though. But a tip to up your odds? Don't exert any pressure. At this age a lot of guys feel that and it's game over. Good luck.

@Ynotisay: sweetheart, I'm the one running from most of the clingy sorts. Lol. Looking for someone worthwhile. You don't know me at all. I'm sucessful, self sufficient and mentally sound. I'm active, attractive and strong. Just bored with the available options.

@Ynotisay: That is sad. I wish they would reconsider. Do you realize and them too that there are so many lovely women out there? Perhaps feeling the same way. Pressure? Maybe they were burnt in love and are shy.

Subjective true. I know it when I see it.

I would want a woman to see that and accept me as I am. And I would accept her as she is.

@JoyfulSilence: you will find her.

Cool.

Absolutely, wouldn't life be so boring if we were all driven by the same likes and needs

@Masterseekingone: most definitely. We are all freaky in our own way. 💋

Too right

That's a relief.

nice to see you relented, a little

@samueltyler2: lol

@Flutterby9812: It is what it is. Note that, butterfly girl.

Not because of me. Lol

@Flutterby9812: definitely not.

@jjoe01: thank you sweetheart.

What exactly is that?

It means some of us stop making relationships a high priority anymore

@Tminus6453: ok. I prefer being with someone I know.

Doubtful

Mine works perfectly well thank you, and probably know what to do with it far better than you

Don't believe it.

@Flutterby9812: That bunny knows nothing.

Not always. :)

:(

Well I'm neither lol talk about stereotyping

Well you qualify just on another continent.

@Flutterby9812: true

@Shutterbug: yes sweetheart but you're married and he's flying 3000 miles for me.

@Flutterby9812: well enjoy!

@Shutterbug: thx. We shall see b

Bitterness much? So stereotypical my friend. Rethink or they will never have anything to do with you.

@Flutterby9812: Every man has his list. Like women, we have standards also.

@ddt333: yes well I didn't ask for a man with money. I was just checking the site. Btw. I happen to fit your criteria.