Where are all the fun, sexy, healthy men over 45?

Lol. For real? I didn't necessarily mean on here. I meant in real?

@Flutterby9812: I've got a few buddies who are successful, good looking and great guys. The reason they're single (and again, nothing personal) is that it's not worth the hassle. That's how I feel too. A lot of guys just don't need a woman in their lives to "complete" them. Some playful fun? Absolutely. But the weight of a relationship? Most of us have been there and done that.
I'm SURE there are men around you who think differently though. But a tip to up your odds? Don't exert any pressure. At this age a lot of guys feel that and it's game over. Good luck.

@Ynotisay: sweetheart, I'm the one running from most of the clingy sorts. Lol. Looking for someone worthwhile. You don't know me at all. I'm sucessful, self sufficient and mentally sound. I'm active, attractive and strong. Just bored with the available options.

@Ynotisay: That is sad. I wish they would reconsider. Do you realize and them too that there are so many lovely women out there? Perhaps feeling the same way. Pressure? Maybe they were burnt in love and are shy.