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Why is he staying with me if I am all these things

been with a guy for 5 months now. We are engaged we moved fast he told me he loved me 2 weeks than we got engaged 2 months later it's been great until a week ago he was acting distant finally he told me what was wrong I am shocked I didn't know hr felt this way he said that I was to needy that I was suffocating him that that I worry to much that I am an emotional disaster that if I layoff and don't suffocate him we will be fine that he is not going to consume himself with me he has other responsibilities that I am always complaining that if I am not the man I want that I should break up with him I don't want that I told him than break up with me if you don't like the way I am He said no I am not going to break up with you if he isn't happy with me than why won't he break up with me
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candynerka · 46-50, F
Update I talked to him this. Morning and told him that I was shocked about all the things he said to me last night he replied I I am done talking about this everything I said is reasonable and most intelligent people with any common sense would agree with me. I hope you are one of them
smiler2012 · 56-60
@candynerka yes so is that it with him then no more chances for you
candynerka · 46-50, F
I haven't left him yet @smiler2012
candynerka · 46-50, F
Still trying to figure all this out
smiler2012 · 56-60
@candynerka is there no chance of reconcile then do you accept what he says that the situation is of your doing by the way you are with him
candynerka · 46-50, F
Yes there is a chance he is only trying to help me I get that a lot from last relationships don't must have a problem but I already new this I fixed myself before I meet him andtild myself that I wouldn't love so fast with him because I get needy but than inlet my gard down because the way he was making me feel he said and did everything I wanted it was like he studied me or something and then he asked me to be his wife so I thought he was my soul mate he would say we were men't to be together he had been trying to get with me for years I always told him no anyway I let my guard down and went against everything I said I wouldn't do now he has changed he is not the person I thought he was @smiler2012