Why does he have to make me fall for him when all he wanted was friendship? He showed me he...

SW-User

So... He's just being a proper friend? What do you want him to do, treat you badly? Be glad you have someone like him, because they're few and far between.

SStarfish ·

Wow how horrible of him ;)

Primnproper · 56-60, F

He's being a good friend, it's not his fault that you saw more into than there was..you should feel blessed to have a friend that thinks you are that special and know you will have a great friend for life.

Ih1King · 36-40, M

Sorry to hear that. People just often do this kind of thing because they enjoy the emotional attention. It's sneaky even when a person is overall good.

thinkincubes · 41-45

If I could choose, I'd make everyone fall in love with me. Deep down I think everyone would if they could, it's just human nature to want to be loved.

NigelDoes · 56-60, M

What my young Germanic American friend from the Midwest wrote.

Fernie · F

All those things you mentioned are things friends do with and for each other. Maybe you read too much into it

ItsDanny · M

because most guys are so dumb and ignorant they dont even realise what they doing :/

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sunsetsoareomyofavourite · 22-25, F

oh no. that is hard

SStarfish ·

Maybe he's just nice 😒

SW-User

That's why, its important to define boundaries from the start. We should be more transparent to avoid such situations.

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

I am inclined to believe he did it on purpose. Men can be fools. They think they can have the cake but keep it at a distance. Leasing you on by a thread . Just in case.... you are better off without him to be honest.

A good friend would be up front about this in the first place..not after.