Pregnancy & dating...

I would walk away (or run, like Svarog said) but that's mostly because I hate children and don't want to be saddled with the stress of dealing with some other lady's spawn every other weekend. I highly doubt you wanna get caught in the middle of that.

He has the right to see the child IF IT IS TRULY HIS CHILD. He should really consider going to get tested before supporting this child. If he found out when the kid was 10 it's not his... he'd be really f*** pissed.

As for you, you may become 'second' on his priority list once that child is born. You'll have to consider whether that is OK with you or break it off now. You don't want to be that 'woman' who watches from a distance another family being raised... ya just don't.

I'd also like to put out, that he had sex with her long before he met me

I see Major drama in your future... unless you get out now

well this is an iffy situation at your age - well any age really. As you age it is very common for men to have children with other females. So on one hand you have to decide if you can accept that or not BUT this case is different because he isn't very sure if he is the dad. My advice to you is to not see him until he has all his ducks in a row. It may or may not mean you can resume after the child is born. But discuss with him that since he doesn't know yet if (or how) a baby is going to change HIS life it's not very reasonable to anticipate how much the situation will affect yours either by dating him. If he's not the dad and you're still both single great, you can reconvene later. Otherwise it's too much a risk and too much an investment to make at this time on ur end.

Wait till the kid is born, then test and validate. If it's his, then leave.

move away, don't leave a forwarding address..

I wouldn't trust a serial dater who was also a widower..

I'd probably say walk away also you don't need the drama

where is your dignity girl?

Update, he has it on recording that it was the other dudes kid & she was doing it for the money... So glad that bullet was dodged!

👀 Get out... I know how this is, my brother is in the same spot as that man, and it isn't pretty. It's not worth your time.

what a jerk