Pregnancy & dating...

The guy I've been seeing (who is widowed) just found out a few days ago that his ex fling may be pregnant with his child. He swears up & down he doesn't want to lose me & he doesn't have feelings for her, but of course he wants to be in the child's life.

I have so many trust issues with men with baby mamas...

Please, advice!

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Thisoneplace · 31-35, F

I'd also like to put out, that he had sex with her long before he met me

SW-User

Well... it can't have been that long.

Thisoneplace · 31-35, F

@Aiyana: I'm not one to get mad or judge who he's seen before me.. We all have past lovers.

SW-User

it couldn't have been too long..
after seeing him for a few months, he's looking for a long term commitment and Lay's this news on you?
cudos for his honesty but this is a lot to think about.. is this really what you bargained for? it doesn't sound like it..