All I want to do is find a nice lovely lady, go on dates with her, be a real honest gentleman, sounds perfect right? But it seems it's a battlefield. I feel I mess up like all the time. I feel so stupid at times.
Hold your head up high, don't beat yourself up... Your human. Confidence is attractive, that's pretty much all you need to know. Don't get too attached to the first person that things go well with either, just live your life
@YukikoAmagi I do know myself but how do I know the enemy when I don't date? I chat online, chat on phone, get told "I'm funny and love to date." Then they go all quiet. Then they block me. I never understand it.
@DeepbreathTalk. Talk a lot as friend before dating. And don't focus on yourself when talking, focus on knowing your target, ask her many things until you get enough information. Don't talk about i like this, i like that.. but focus on what do you like? what you don't like?
after you know a lot about her and know your capacity, then start your move trying to date her
@YukikoAmagi thanks for good advice. I never talk about me and I get asked questions about me and I ask different questions and sometimes I ask the same questions back too.
I generally get on well with the opposite side of attraction I hVe been known as a setup of cat fish, being used in some way. But the genuine kind of female do block me when I got no idea why, I think they may have found someone better. Or they may not like me because of my health. I can't decide on that.
Well, I've never had effortless as GreenGoddess suggested and I've been around for a bit, but we are all human and see the world through the eyes of different experience. We all mess up but you can find a lady who is willing to work with you and you with her.