My crush and his best female friend are now saying! How can I get rid of this hurt and jealousy?

My guy friend told me bluntly that he only sees me as a sister and not the romantic type when I confessed my feelings towards him. I was heartbroken. He told me he just admitted to his best female friend that he is in love with her and asked her out. I told him, "Well thanks for being honest and have a fun date." Then when I got home, I started CRYING! I saw on his Instagram that they had am amazing date. Now they're a couple. I can't stand seeing them happy. If course I want him and he to be happy but I get jealous seeing them. My best friend told me I need to get over it and move on. There is a lot of other guys plus our childhood friend seems to like me and I'm not seeing that he liked me for a long time. I want my guy friend! I was in bed moping all day and my best friend called and told me, "Get your ass up!" 😭😭😭😭😭

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ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

All of your friends seem awful; get new friends!

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LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F

@Grateful4you thanks a lot

Grateful4you · M

(((HUGS)))

LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F

@Grateful4you hugs ❤️❤️

Grateful4you · M

Your best friend is right on! Don't get desperate and lower your standards. Remember this and remember well, "When one door closes allowing another door to open and eventually someone who truly DESERVES you.

Maybe join a gym and take your emotions out on working out, get a new hairstyle, seeing the changes in your body will increase self- esteem, self-confidence. This kind of positive energy will attract men. I knowm been there, done that, and it works.

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Grateful4you · M

@LaurieKitKat94 Realizing this is a good start hon. I wish you all the luck in the world!

LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F

@Grateful4you thank you so much

Grateful4you · M

@GoldenWorm I would do BOTH.

SW-User

Well, the more you want to pull someone into you, the further they will push them away from you.

If you are tired of not having your crush likes you back, maybe you should check yourself again and find out the reason why this happens to you. [b]I like them, but why they don't like me back?[/b] You should ask yourself that question and find out why you are not attractive to them.

You have to understand that this world is not only for you. It is for everyone, and everyone has the right to do whatever they want. Don't be selfish. Don't be so desperate. The more these things involve in your mind, the more likely that you won't get anybody.

LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F

@SW-User How am I being selfish?! That's rude

SW-User

@LaurieKitKat94 Don't you realize that you are? You don't like him being with the other girl and always expect him to be with you. And you only think about yourself because you always expect your crush to like you and you don't care what is their true feeling about you.

Is that being selfish?

JP1119 · 36-40, M

I know it's tough. How do you feel about your childhood friend who seems to like you?

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LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F

@JP1119 Why would I do that?

JP1119 · 36-40, M

@LaurieKitKat94 Why not?

LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F

@JP1119 Um..um.. yeah but I don't like him. My best friends tell me most people we know said that he's had a crush on me for like...ever. I just been paying attention to my guy friend that I liked. My best friend said, "Look he likes you and he has been your shoulder to cry on. Don't take this for granted. Plus he is a great guy and he even admitted that when you were with your date he said, 'I wish your date and I would switch places.' what does that tell you?" I don't know what she is saying.

SW-User

Listen to your best friend. Moping won't make it any better. Move on and find someone who will have mutual feelings for you.

LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F

@SW-User She didn't have to be so hard on me.

SW-User

Oh. Well my personal advice is to eat some ice cream, watch a bit of netflix and rest. You should feel much better tomorrow.

GoldenWorm · 51-55, M

Move on. You don't own or have a right to him.

Life sucks, make new experiences with someone else.

LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F

@GoldenWorm I know but I'm so sick of every guy I like not liking me back! I hate being in the friend zone!!!! 💔💔💔😠😠😠😠

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