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My crush and his best female friend are now saying! How can I get rid of this hurt and jealousy?

My guy friend told me bluntly that he only sees me as a sister and not the romantic type when I confessed my feelings towards him. I was heartbroken. He told me he just admitted to his best female friend that he is in love with her and asked her out. I told him, "Well thanks for being honest and have a fun date." Then when I got home, I started CRYING! I saw on his Instagram that they had am amazing date. Now they're a couple. I can't stand seeing them happy. If course I want him and he to be happy but I get jealous seeing them. My best friend told me I need to get over it and move on. There is a lot of other guys plus our childhood friend seems to like me and I'm not seeing that he liked me for a long time. I want my guy friend! I was in bed moping all day and my best friend called and told me, "Get your ass up!" 馃槶馃槶馃槶馃槶馃槶
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Grateful4youM
Your best friend is right on! Don't get desperate and lower your standards. Remember this and remember well, "When one door closes allowing another door to open and eventually someone who truly DESERVES you.

Maybe join a gym and take your emotions out on working out, get a new hairstyle, seeing the changes in your body will increase self- esteem, self-confidence. This kind of positive energy will attract men. I knowm been there, done that, and it works.
LaurieKitKat9426-30, F
@Grateful4you How will that help?
Grateful4youM
@LaurieKitKat94 Try reading the post again. Or have your friend explain it. A "makeover" is sometimes like a rebirth. With a whole NEW outlook.
LaurieKitKat9426-30, F
@Grateful4you I guess. I really need to hit the gym because I'm 302lbs.
GoldenWorm51-55, M
@LaurieKitKat94 Gyms are good for fitness but bad for weight loss. Work on food choices.
Grateful4youM
@LaurieKitKat94 Realizing this is a good start hon. I wish you all the luck in the world!
LaurieKitKat9426-30, F
@Grateful4you thank you so much
Grateful4youM
@GoldenWorm I would do BOTH.