My crush and his best female friend are now saying! How can I get rid of this hurt and jealousy?

My guy friend told me bluntly that he only sees me as a sister and not the romantic type when I confessed my feelings towards him. I was heartbroken. He told me he just admitted to his best female friend that he is in love with her and asked her out. I told him, "Well thanks for being honest and have a fun date." Then when I got home, I started CRYING! I saw on his Instagram that they had am amazing date. Now they're a couple. I can't stand seeing them happy. If course I want him and he to be happy but I get jealous seeing them. My best friend told me I need to get over it and move on. There is a lot of other guys plus our childhood friend seems to like me and I'm not seeing that he liked me for a long time. I want my guy friend! I was in bed moping all day and my best friend called and told me, "Get your ass up!" 😭😭😭😭😭

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SW-User

Well, the more you want to pull someone into you, the further they will push them away from you.

If you are tired of not having your crush likes you back, maybe you should check yourself again and find out the reason why this happens to you. [b]I like them, but why they don't like me back?[/b] You should ask yourself that question and find out why you are not attractive to them.

You have to understand that this world is not only for you. It is for everyone, and everyone has the right to do whatever they want. Don't be selfish. Don't be so desperate. The more these things involve in your mind, the more likely that you won't get anybody.

LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F

@SW-User How am I being selfish?! That's rude

SW-User

@LaurieKitKat94 Don't you realize that you are? You don't like him being with the other girl and always expect him to be with you. And you only think about yourself because you always expect your crush to like you and you don't care what is their true feeling about you.

Is that being selfish?