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Has a boyfriend ever been beat up in front of you? Honestly: was it in any way embarrassing to you.

A man would never hit me and live!

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@MorbidCynic I too had to read it twice, you dont have to be ashamed when you realize
Well to be fair, I’m coming down from an LSD high 😂@MartinTheFirst
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@MorbidCynic no chill
StevenIzzi · 51-55, M
I talked my way out of a fight to avoid embarrassing a guy in front of his Wife/GF.

I offered to invite him to the Jiu Jitsu studio where I train so that neither of us get arrested for assault and that if a bone were to get broken that it would be a sparring accident.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
If that were the case, I'd never be embarrassed..I'd be happy the fight were over and I'd help him in any way🌼
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@BigRon I wouldn't want to see a fight.. but if a guy listened to me , shared laughter, etc I'd feel protected anyway👍🌿
BigRon · 41-45, M
You are a special woman. I hope you know that. And I hope you know that, unfortunately, there are women who view things the opposite way you do. For some reason I've managed to go out with a fair amount of this type. They just love fights. I'll. never figure this out. But I'm glad you are who you are. I should have gone out with you instead of some of the girls I did.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@BigRon Aww that's very kind, thank you. I'm sorry they liked that..no thanks to THAT, for me
Why do guys feel the need to fight??? i'd be more scared than embarrassed if i had to witness that!!!
BigRon · 41-45, M
Yep, yeah, and yes. But it depends on the "love" level, I think. If you don't really love a man maybe it's okay if he fights. Most women who like fights, don't want to see someone they love get into one. My problem, I guess, is that I lost fights in front of women who didn't love me.@Coralmist
@BigRon If a man has to resort to fighting other men for whatever reason, then, what's he going to do to me as a woman if he doesn't get his own way???

i'd much rather have a guy with a high enough IQ to use effective communication to talk his way out of trouble. This indicates to me that he is going to be more likely to turn to communication rather than violence when things don't go well in the relationship.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@BigRon 😟So they were kind of taking it as a fling? Either way don't be hard on yourself, now you know through this, you want a woman who wouldn't judge you or be embarrassed if you chose not fighting 🌻
SW-User
I was in a situation where a guy was harasssing me and the girl I’m seeing, the situation could of ended badly, he held an empty bottle waiting to smack me in the face with at the right moment but she asked if I had a lighter, so I went through my bag and remembered I had a box cutter so I covertly got that ready, because if that bottle went near my face or hers, that blokes fat guy would of been opened up like a tin of spag.
4meAndyou · F
Yes. The third ex...twice. The first time he so obviously did not want to get into it and danced around at the edge. The second time he was knocked out, so I was more concerned with possible brain damage from the head butt he received than anything else.
4meAndyou · F
@BigRon Yes, we had all been in there drinking, and one of our friends was attacked outside. I couldn't help thinking that the ex was a little bit of a coward...and later I found out it was true.

If you can imagine this, when we were married, if there was a scary noise outside, I had to be the one to go out and investigate.
BigRon · 41-45, M
Well, how much of what you just told me contributed to him becoming an "ex"?@4meAndyou
4meAndyou · F
@BigRon Cowards become bullies, cowards and/or bullies can't get any respect, and then they have to abuse someone smaller and weaker than themselves, and that's what he did.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
No,but I battered a guy in front of his friends in a nightclub for groping my ass while I was dancing with my boyfriend I scratched his face,then threw him to the ground, as he got up I knocked him out by kicking him in the face.
BigRon · 41-45, M
Wow. You don't mess around. Good for you. A woman needs to draw a pretty strict line when it comes to guys touching them. How did your boyfriend react to this? Did he think you took on his duties?@tallpowerhouseblonde
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
@BigRon He was very happy that I had stood up for myself and impressed at what I could do.I've been into martial arts for years.We went back to dancing and kissing,the guy had to be taken to hospital.
SW-User
No but if he did I'd tell his bitch ass to get up and stop playing with the floor
BigRon · 41-45, M
Your answer is kind of what a girlfriend once said to me after I lost a fight in front of her.@SW-User
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Nice try, back page advertisement on a 1960s comic book.

 
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