You are a special woman. I hope you know that. And I hope you know that, unfortunately, there are women who view things the opposite way you do. For some reason I've managed to go out with a fair amount of this type. They just love fights. I'll. never figure this out. But I'm glad you are who you are. I should have gone out with you instead of some of the girls I did.
I talked my way out of a fight to avoid embarrassing a guy in front of his Wife/GF.
I offered to invite him to the Jiu Jitsu studio where I train so that neither of us get arrested for assault and that if a bone were to get broken that it would be a sparring accident.
Yep, yeah, and yes. But it depends on the "love" level, I think. If you don't really love a man maybe it's okay if he fights. Most women who like fights, don't want to see someone they love get into one. My problem, I guess, is that I lost fights in front of women who didn't love me.@Coralmist
@BigRon If a man has to resort to fighting other men for whatever reason, then, what's he going to do to me as a woman if he doesn't get his own way???
i'd much rather have a guy with a high enough IQ to use effective communication to talk his way out of trouble. This indicates to me that he is going to be more likely to turn to communication rather than violence when things don't go well in the relationship.
@BigRon 😟So they were kind of taking it as a fling? Either way don't be hard on yourself, now you know through this, you want a woman who wouldn't judge you or be embarrassed if you chose not fighting 🌻
Yes. The third ex...twice. The first time he so obviously did not want to get into it and danced around at the edge. The second time he was knocked out, so I was more concerned with possible brain damage from the head butt he received than anything else.
@BigRon Yes, we had all been in there drinking, and one of our friends was attacked outside. I couldn't help thinking that the ex was a little bit of a coward...and later I found out it was true.
If you can imagine this, when we were married, if there was a scary noise outside, I had to be the one to go out and investigate.
@BigRon Cowards become bullies, cowards and/or bullies can't get any respect, and then they have to abuse someone smaller and weaker than themselves, and that's what he did.
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I was in a situation where a guy was harasssing me and the girl I’m seeing, the situation could of ended badly, he held an empty bottle waiting to smack me in the face with at the right moment but she asked if I had a lighter, so I went through my bag and remembered I had a box cutter so I covertly got that ready, because if that bottle went near my face or hers, that blokes fat guy would of been opened up like a tin of spag.
No,but I battered a guy in front of his friends in a nightclub for groping my ass while I was dancing with my boyfriend I scratched his face,then threw him to the ground, as he got up I knocked him out by kicking him in the face.
Wow. You don't mess around. Good for you. A woman needs to draw a pretty strict line when it comes to guys touching them. How did your boyfriend react to this? Did he think you took on his duties?@tallpowerhouseblonde
@BigRon He was very happy that I had stood up for myself and impressed at what I could do.I've been into martial arts for years.We went back to dancing and kissing,the guy had to be taken to hospital.
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No but if he did I'd tell his bitch ass to get up and stop playing with the floor