What is true love? Is it something that grows over time or is it something that you feel when...

i think about the people i truly love romantically -- only three over my lifetime. Time will determine if it is true love.

496sbc · 36-40, M

It depends on both who the guy and the lady are

SW-User

There's no real definition, only you can know if you love a person.

Danez · M

True love is caring more about someone than yourself, wanting the best for them. When everything you do is with them in mind. You think of them all day and dream of them all night.Your happiness comes from making them happy. When they're sad - you are even more sad. Together you become one and nothing else matters.
To me that's what true love is.

1961dave · 61-69, M

It's a hard thing to find the right person. I was tricked when I got married. She was a narcissist just being nice until we were married. Also if you do find the right person both of you have to work at the relationship or it will die, even if you're really a good match.

SW-User

I think there has to be some attraction the first time you meet, but real love has to grow. Or in the poetic words of Tim Minchin:

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SW-User

true love adapts and grows ..change into something much deeper and intimate

Nevermetonelikeme

Get a cat instead. Meow

SStarfish ·

True love is love that is true imo :)

xCoinx · 31-35, M

😫It feels like the first time
Feels like the very first time
It Feels like the first time
It Feels like the very first time😫....🤘...😁

Doomflower · 36-40, M

I think love starts as lust and attraction. It's only over time that we can actually grow to love a person. When you first meet you don't even know someone. How can you love a person you don't know?

popmol · 26-30, M

i think it is when you love someoen and you want to stay with them your entire life?

SW-User

It develops for me, slowly and gradually and I believe in true love.

PedalEve · 22-25, M

Never had the chance to experience it .. it must be bad

FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M

True love is that of a mother for her child. Other than that I don't think it exists.