Husband won’t look for Job - attraction gone now, want divorce ? Husband of 6 years was fired o...

Frankyboy · 46-50, M

Wow !! Ok he's not going to change anything ..unless you show him what he is going to loose ... he's spent your family savings and I'm guessing makes all kinds of excuses to justify his stupidity. .. now tell me If he could spend all that savings .. was he thinking of yours and his future ? No !! So it falls on you to make him see what really is on the line here .. leave him .... make him see your not playing games .. this is real life . Leave him and don't give in until he shows you that you and your life together matter to him . It's hard I know but it's the only way you will know where his mind and feelings are at ... sorry it's come to this but you have to start thinking this way .. otherwise he won't get it, and showing him you mean business will be the only way to know where his heart is at ...

LyricalOne · F

Time to say goodbye unless you want to be in this position when you’re 65 because it certainly looks like he’s following in daddy’s footsteps.

Grateful4you · M

First off, you aren't overreacting, (not by a long shot) squandering 70k without you're knowledge is a HUGE red flag. His refusal to accept responsibility and seek counseling is another one. I doubt you'll ever be attracted to him again, someone you pity for being too weak and lazy. Like abuse, these patterns of behavior never get better but will only worsen. Sorry, probably not what you wanted to hear. You are still young enough to move on, you sound intelligent and can certainly do better. I wish you the best. ((HUGS)))...I know this hard for you!

TheProphet · M

Run away as fast as you can. He isn't going to change. Why should he, you're supporting him.

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Ryanoliver2011 · 26-30, M

You are definitely not overreacting. If anything you are under reacting. If his parents are alcoholics then there is a very good chance he is as well. The sad truth is when it comes to an alcoholic you can’t trust them as far as you can throw them. I know a thing or two as my aunt is an alcoholic and well let’s not open that can of worms.
Personally I would leave him but that is your choice to make

Loygan11 · 36-40, M

Sounds like he needs to be kicked in the nuts everyday

SW-User

You're not overreacting and it is normal. That doesn't mean he won't change his ways, but if he does, and I'm not trying to put the onus on you, but it'll likely take more than him seeking counsel to make this work but together unless you can work out emotions that have been built together.