Was it wrong to delete and block my boyfriend’s ex from his Facebook?

You’re so lucky you’re in England. That’s all I’m going to say. I don’t usually argue with people, I use my hands. But since I can’t do that with you, this convo is pointless. I just hope you talk this same shit to your husband. Maybe you should woman up and fix things with him, before you give others advice. I can see why he doesn’t want you though.

You’re only talking shit because you’re miles and miles away, but trust me, I can back it up. If I could, I would fly out to you and show you. You really don’t want to mess with me. If you’ve tried everything, then why are you still married??? Why don’t you woman up and end things???

They don’t have any issues, they don’t even talk or anything. It’s just that when we started dating he still had feelings for her and I think having her there might cause problems. @ViciDraco

@Northwest she did grow up. she told him.

You’re right, I do. I apologized deeply for it. It was wrong. @Northwest

@StrangeDisaster awesome, girl!
go forth and do the right thing with confidence. maybe he’ll leave her blocked.

He’s not really mad, but he doesn’t like that I altered his social media without his permission. He’s never letting me touch his phone again, and he’s considering adding her back. So now I need reevaluate this whole relationship. Thanks so much for your input. @SW-User

@StrangeDisaster you’re welcome. you did the right thing, and i know it was hard. i sincerely hope you two can work it out, but you’re right… you need to reevaluate. it’s not just about him feeling secure in this relationship, it’s about your peace of mind as well. maybe he just needs a little time to process, and i think it’s clear you need someone who wants to set firm boundaries with exes as a way of defining your exclusiveness. at least you don’t have to live in fear of him finding out in any other way now. proud of you.

I read something online about people having their exes on fb and how they deleted them to move on with their lives. I thought that it would’ve been a good idea to eliminate the possibility of there being contact in the future. When we started dating he wasn’t over her, but he had this out of sight, out of mind attitude so I want to make sure she’s out of sight, permanently.

@StrangeDisaster sensible.

Exactly! @TwiddlerofThumbs

How do I fix it? Do I tell him and then let him decide? @SW-User

@StrangeDisaster The best thing you can do is look to yourself. This jealousy you feel won't go away because of a deleted friend. Do what you want but i'd confess and tell him that I won't behave like this again.

@StrangeDisaster i agree. you should confess. it’s an opportunity to show that you can be vulnerable and honest.

Yeah I understand that I was wrong. It’s not that he gave me a reason not to trust him, I just don’t trust anyone at all. It’s not fair to him and I know I need to work on that. @bijouxbroussard

He didn’t feel like he needed to since they don’t really talk, and he doesn’t like deleting people. @TallMtnMedic

Damn...@Helpinghands

@StrangeDisaster 😉

Why? @Lilnonames

@StrangeDisaster because uwent into his phone.mow if it was your phone it b ok