Was it wrong to delete and block my boyfriend’s ex from his Facebook?

It depends on why he did it and the nature of the relationship I had with the person. @Dwari

@StrangeDisaster what if the nature of your relationship was the same as he had with his ex? You believe you could condone his actions? You would be ok with him stepping into your privacy like that?

If it was causing him distress and affecting our relationship then yes I condone it. I don’t mind him going through my phone or checking my messages because I don’t have anything to hide. I’m open about everything and anything.

you literally just told everyone here that you haven’t been open and honest with him, @StrangeDisaster

Lol I am tho lmao

@StrangeDisaster laugh it off, i guess…

@SW-User I know how it looks but I really am. In terms of what’s on my phone and stuff I’m open to him looking through it and whatever else he wants to do. This may look like I’m not, but not really.

@StrangeDisaster still you’ve got this problem… and i know you’ve got to realize that confidence is far more attractive than insecurity. just admit to him that the relationship is important enough to you that you did what you did, and hopefully it will bring you closer together. if he finds out later, even if he doesn’t break up with you for it, he will see you as insecure.

It is a problem, and I kind of regretted it when I did it. I asked was it wrong because it did feel wrong, but my insecurities won me over. But you’re right if I’m truly open and honest, I should admit to it. Im going to work on it. @SW-User

@StrangeDisaster awesome, girl!
go forth and do the right thing with confidence. maybe he’ll leave her blocked.

He’s not really mad, but he doesn’t like that I altered his social media without his permission. He’s never letting me touch his phone again, and he’s considering adding her back. So now I need reevaluate this whole relationship. Thanks so much for your input. @SW-User

@StrangeDisaster you’re welcome. you did the right thing, and i know it was hard. i sincerely hope you two can work it out, but you’re right… you need to reevaluate. it’s not just about him feeling secure in this relationship, it’s about your peace of mind as well. maybe he just needs a little time to process, and i think it’s clear you need someone who wants to set firm boundaries with exes as a way of defining your exclusiveness. at least you don’t have to live in fear of him finding out in any other way now. proud of you.