Was it wrong to delete and block my boyfriend’s ex from his Facebook?

@HootyTheNightOwl exactly!

It depends on why he did it and the nature of the relationship I have with that ex.

@StrangeDisaster No, there's no "it depends"

It's about him going over your head to make a decision without you knowing.

How would you feel if he did that to you?

Going off his situation where she’s not really a part of his life, I wouldn’t care.

@StrangeDisaster That wasn't the question, but okay.

Thanks for your input though 😘

@StrangeDisaster Not at all. If you have a problem with this ex, then you should have sat down and talked it through with him like 2 grown adults.

You might be his girlfriend - if I can even call you that, but no one died and gave you the right to dictate who he gets to associate with. If you want this relationship to last, then you need to deal with your insecurities and stop being narcissistic.

@Fangirlsarah1996 Might as well let it go, there's no reasoning with a narcissist... they aren't capable of seeing things from other people's angle, sadly.

Hopefully, her victim will see the light and get out before it's too late.

Fuck you, I’m not a narcissist. Insecure, yes, but don’t call me a narcissist. @HootyTheNightOwl

@StrangeDisaster Why, does the truth hurt now??? Better get comfortable with it sweetcheeks - you'll be seeing a lot of it if you don't change your ways.

If I were to insult you and say that you were something you’re not, you would react the same, sweetie. I’m aware that I need to change my ways, what you said about talking about it like grownups was right, but I know for a fact that I’m not a narcissist.

@StrangeDisaster Really??? You presented a pretty good textbook example in how you responded to my suggestion just then - and the behavior you initially posted about is another way that this disorder presents itself, too... starts out small with one person here and there and before the victim knows what hit them, they are a hermit only going out to "approved" appointments with their abuser.

And, by the way, many sufferers can't see that they have the problem, either.

Like I said, FUCK YOU.

@StrangeDisaster Like I said... the truth hurts. Look on the bright side, child, school is back in session tomorrow - maybe you'll be able to learn a new word to try to intimidate me with when you CAPITALISE it because that one sure doesn't bother me in any way.

Given your childish inability to have a rational conversation without having to resort to swearing, I can see why you acted the way that you did rather than being "woman" enough to talk to him and deal with your insecurities by getting professional help.

As far as fucking me goes, I'll pass on that, I don't much care for girls with a vocabulary that suggests that they belong in the gutter - and that's before I even look at your other issues.

First off, you spelled that wrong lol. But you’re right, I’m from the gutter and if you want I’ll show you exactly what I do there. How can I have a rational conversation with someone who is insulting me without even knowing me, or the full story? The first comment you made, you’re labeling me. I’m curious as to what credentials you have. You seem kind of bitter and might even be the real narcissist here. You think you’re better than me just because I curse? Lol bitch you wouldn’t say this shit to my face. No one said you had to answer my question. And damn, you reminded me I have homework. And how about, go fuck yourself because you’re probably ugly anyways.

Insulting you where and how??? By being woman enough to call you out on your behavior suggesting that you may have some narcissistic type traits??? Do you even know what you are denying???

I don't need to think that I'm better than you, either. My superior use of the English language demonstrates that point quite nicely - and if you think that I wouldn't say this to your face, then you are sorely mistaken.

I don't recall reading the words "Please only answer this question if the answer is going to be something that I'm going to like" either. You need to wake up and smell the coffee. At the end of the day, we all have exes in our past - and not all of them can simply be unfriended and blocked based on your insecurities. There's a chance that you might shack up with someone who has children with an ex at some point in time. What are you going to do then, deny him his right to have access with his children because of what he might or might not do with his ex or put on your big girl panties and deal with it???

I'm ugly??? I sincerely doubt that, I've already demonstrated that my beauty is on a level far more superior to yours by not having to resort to being outright disrespectful towards you. Maybe, one day, you might gain enough maturity to be able to return the favor to others, too.

You talk about your superior use of the English language, but you spelled capitalize wrong. I have two degrees but I’m still going to talk however the fuck I want. Who the fuck are you to say someone has narcissistic traits???? Call me immature, that’s fine. I’m young and I know I still have growing to do. However, if you disrespect me, I will disrespect you as well. And you disrespected me, so now we have a problem. You can call me out on my behavior, I understand what I did was wrong. But you won’t label me or call me out of my name. If this was in person, I wonder if you would’ve called me a narcissist to my face. Like I said, you don’t know the whole story bitch. What you described is a completely different situation and had it even been that situation, I would’ve handled that differently. You don’t know me bitch, so don’t act like you do.

Oh word? You would say it to me? Are you from New York? Because I’ll come meet you right now, I’m off tomorrow. I got a lot time. @HootyTheNightOwl

A lot of time*

Really??? We want to try being the grammar police now??? Use one of your degrees and look it up in a dictionary and you'll find that capitalise is the British spelling of capitalize - and that both variations of the word are correctly spelled in their respective countries.

Suggesting that someone may have narcissistic traits is not disrespectful, either, and nor is pointing out that they are showing symptoms and can't face facts about it. It's way past time you pulled your head out of the sand and took a long, hard look at yourself.

As for calling you out on your behavior, that's what we are still *yawn* fighting about because you refuse to look at this from the angle of an outsider and be grown up about it.

You’re so lucky you’re in England. That’s all I’m going to say. I don’t usually argue with people, I use my hands. But since I can’t do that with you, this convo is pointless. I just hope you talk this same shit to your husband. Maybe you should woman up and fix things with him, before you give others advice. I can see why he doesn’t want you though.

You’re only talking shit because you’re miles and miles away, but trust me, I can back it up. If I could, I would fly out to you and show you. You really don’t want to mess with me. If you’ve tried everything, then why are you still married??? Why don’t you woman up and end things???