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Should I break up with my boyfriend?

He says he prefers girls with big boobs and who are fit. I have small boobs and I’m not in the best shape. Shouldn’t he be with someone who has the things that he wants?

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TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP

im betting hes no oil painting or Atlas?..

SW-User

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout hahaha

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Or... you could give him what he wants.

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SW-User

@MarkPaul Yeah, like I said, I'm good. There is NO communication issue in my relationship. I think I've been around a bit longer than you little boy. But for some reason, you think you know what my relationship is like. How arrogant and foolish you are. And I guess everyone else here who agrees with how I feel is in a "fake relationship" too huh?

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@SW-User 🤦 It sounds like you have some serious relationship issues, tbh. You don't want your partner to tell you what he really thinks; instead you just want him to love you for who and want you are, just the way you are and never with even a hint of (human) desire for anything more, different, or else. Are you sure you are not in a relationship with a store-bought greeting card?

SW-User

@MarkPaul 🤣

DarlingSelah ·

I cant even imagine a guy fixing his crusty lips to even say that to my face. He must really not think much of you. Omg

goliathtree · 56-60, M

tell him you are done. You need someone with a bigger dick, not someone who is a bigger dick.

GoldButterfly · F

Dump his ass. You deserve better than him.

MellyMel22 · F

[i][c=#BF0080]Get rid of that jerk.. You deserve better.[/c][/i]

Virgo94 · 26-30, F

Does he tell you that he doesn't like how you look or are you just worried that he doesn't? He's with you for a reason. Maybe he likes who you are

StrangeDisaster · 31-35, F

He tells me that I’m beautiful in other ways, but I want to be desired. I don’t want someone to just like my personality. @Virgo94

Virgo94 · 26-30, F

Understandable. I struggle with the same thing with my bf. I don't always feel like I'm his type. I guess you just have to decide if you want to stay or find someone who wants all of you. :)

ExperienceDLT · M

He should be accepting you as you are not wanting to change anything about you and if he does not accept you then you should dump him

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

I dont know if im the best one to be giving advice because i have not been in relationships yet but I think that if you love him and he says he loves you and no one else more then you should stay with him, you should talk to him about it ask him if he thinks you are the one that he loves the most and weather your physical apprerence effects how he feels about oyu. maybe he used to like this body type but after seeing you he does not care anymore.

Sujeet · 31-35, M

Relationship is not all about the boobs pussy or body
It's about love
If he love you he will be happy with what you have all life
But if he focusing on other girl with big boobs and body than its better to leave him because he not love you he just with you so he can have fun and leave you when he find big boobs and good body shape women
So just trying to know his feelings and try to know is he really love you or just a fun
Than decide

AkAtSUki · F

I dated a guy who was into big boned women, thick women, yet he was attracted to me, I'm slim-medium built, but to him I was "skinny". I wondered well if you like big girls why are you with me? And he told me "you're the first "skinny" girl I've ever liked."

Sometimes attraction can go deeper than what we think we like.
Your boyfriend accepts your unique beauty. Well at least he should.

RenaissanceMan

No, YOU should be with someone who appreciates you...for YOU.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

most certainly. Tell him you prefer a man who isn't a jerk💁🏾

kodiac · 22-25, M

Tell him you'd prefer a bigger dik!

HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F

I guess it would depend on the context. Do you think it was said to make you feel bad about yourself?

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StrangeDisaster · 31-35, F

I asked.

StrangeDisaster · 31-35, F

I regret doing so. I was better off not knowing.

HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F

@StrangeDisaster If you asked, and he gave an honest answer, then you shouldn’t really fault him for that. Everyone has an ideal physique, but the best ones are those who look beyond that and fall in love with someone's heart.

luckranger71 · 51-55, M

Dump him. Immediately.

okaybut · 56-60, M

Time to end it...you could get fit if YOU WANTED TO as well. But the boobs thing is just ridiculous. Oh...let him know when you end it that you prefer a man with a man-sized dick.

SW-User

Just tell him that you are ok as you are and what a pity if he doesn't like you.

Freudianslip13 ·

Break up with him and get really fit so he regrets saying that

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

Aah lol... I did the same thing to my ex. While i loved her small boobs and skinny ass, I said hypothetically "what if your breasts were this big!" while pushing them together. Obviously it was nothing in my mind, but to her it was like saying "YOU AREN'T GOOD ENOUGH!"

safe to say that ended up in a fight. Cut him some slack mate, things aren't always what it sounds like.