Would you forgive your significant other if he/she abuse you? Have you ever forgive an abuser?

@SW-User Very wise and inspiring. :)

@cloudy Thanks for your kindness and the BA. ☺

@SW-User what about non-physical?

@Viper idk that's debatable

@ProdigalSummer chin up (hugs you)

@Dewms That's a fact ..

@cloudy you would be surprised, it’s a lot more common than you think, just a lot of cases where the woman is the perpetrator and men are victims. Usually those cases go unreported because we fear not “being less of a man” if we spoke up about it especially to other men and quite a lot of men usually kill them selves feeling like it’s the only way out too.
Domestic violence does not discriminate genders as much as a misleading society likes to.

@SW-User Totally agreed. But I just wanted to state that if you are a woman physical abuse may hurt more than psychologycal abuse. Because women in relationships are more likely to be sharp-witted to defend themselves against psychologycal abuse / phsysically weak to defend themselves against physical abuse. However, ofcourse this does not apply to all couples.

@cloudy or guys just have too much of a heart to lay a hand on a woman even if it means life or death of the man if worst case scenario and because he loves her so much he just cops it that much the pain just doesn’t bother him and just shuts up and puts up.

Worth it if you truely love her

@cloudy and have a kid together...

well that's a factor :D

@BeefySenpie Absolutely, it's not easy. But it doesn't mean you forgive them.

Sometimes your real man shows his dark side to you long after :/

@cloudy no ... 17 years and he’s been a perfect gentleman.

@TexChik I am so happy for you guys.. I hope I get a real man too :D

@Caprice I guess that is the best attitude. I believe you should forgive people for your own inner peace

@cloudy It's never easy, but always worth it.

Thank you. Probably stupid as well. But I have to think about my daughter.

@BlueRain My father used to abuse my mother when i was a kid. My mother stayed for the same reason. Here I am now. I studied law and defending women rights, standing up for all the women. If you stayed just for your child then this is strenght, not stupidity. I really appreciate strong women like you.

Thank you. ❤️

@caccoon 🤗

@MartinTheFirst if you start arguing over some dumb shit and it turns into a fight, then he/she yells & swears at you and hits you with the intention of hurting you at the end.

@cloudy I mean yeah I would forgive them, but they'd have to change.

@MartinTheFirst but can you even change someone? I don't believe that. And while saying that they'll change they could be lying to get you back and you could live the same thing again