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daddy6199 · 41-45, M
I would
fazer1k · 56-60, M
You are old enough to make your own decisions so if she's your dream girl I say date her and see where it leads. I don't know anything about you, of course, but my guess is your parents won't really worry too much so long as it doesn't have a negative impact on other areas of your life - like school work, for instance.
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DeltaEcho · 22-25, M
Well I guess the worst thing that could happen is that she says no, I get fired for harassment for asking her, and my parents find out. Like that is the worst that could happen. Or I could die before I get to ask her. Either one.
... ok I'll think about it.
... ok I'll think about it.
fazer1k · 56-60, M
@ajdavis: If she says no you would have to accept that, of course, otherwise it would become harassment. Presumably she has similar life and study pressures to you at the moment and she might say no for that reason. If so, you could still try asking at a later date when the circumstances are better. That's what I was thinking. Good luck, anyway.
DeltaEcho · 22-25, M
Thanks
Carver · 31-35, F
You're 18. You're legally an adult and are old enough to start making your own decisions. If you want to pursue a relationship with this girl then go for it and tell your parents to shove it. Respect between parents and their offspring isn't a one-way street. If they can't respect the fact that you're a grown-up now and want to still be controlling over you then they don't deserve your respect.
DeltaEcho · 22-25, M
Thanks but I like just turned 18 lol. Not much adult experience here.
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
GirlSerendipity · 26-30, F
i think you should try to get to know her better but **not** try to date her. she's your 'dream girl' you say but you don't actually know her. you simply imagine her to be your dream girl. maybe she is. maybe she isn't . . . get to know the real her with an open mind and the rest will follow
Ynotjenn · F
My own boys could have posted this same story. lol
I didn't want them dating either.
I wanted them focusing on school...not girls.
Didn't always work...but I tried.
:)
I didn't want them dating either.
I wanted them focusing on school...not girls.
Didn't always work...but I tried.
:)
SW-User
why don't your parents want you to date
you're 18?
ask her for coffee
you're 18?
ask her for coffee
DeltaEcho · 22-25, M
They don't want me to date until I'm out of collage so that my education is out of the way. they say "There's always time for that later"
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
Your parents don't want you to date her, or date at all?
And yeah, how much younger is she?
And yeah, how much younger is she?
livesincar · 41-45, M
yes just no hanky panky till both 18
livesincar · 41-45, M
that is cool
How much younger?
DeltaEcho · 22-25, M
a year younger. Not much.
Oh i dont see the problem. Take her somewhere nice.
Amandanc · F
Go for it! No harm in asking