Should I date this girl?

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Yes! What are you waiting for?

Yes but be careful.

No. Get to know her more.

No. You're to young to date.

No. It's just a crush. Don't worry you'll get over it.

No. Don't even ask. Forget about it.

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Ok so let me start this off with this is my dream girl. She's pretty, smart, and has a fantastic personality. She likes to read, sing, and dance. She's a Christian like me (which is fantastic). She's all around a great person. We work together. I do hang out with her sometimes. She's not dating someone else. She might like me I don't know. If she does like me idk if it's like obvious.

Now for the bad news. My parents don't want me to date. It might not sound big but it's kinda a big deal. I don't have her number. She's younger than me. I've only known her for about a year.

I'm 18. I'm in my senior year of high school.

So Should I date her?

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fazer1k · 56-60, M

You are old enough to make your own decisions so if she's your dream girl I say date her and see where it leads. I don't know anything about you, of course, but my guess is your parents won't really worry too much so long as it doesn't have a negative impact on other areas of your life - like school work, for instance.

DeltaEcho · 22-25, M

Ya I guess so. I mean they do care about my school work. The good news is my senior year is over this semester. So I just have to wait till January.
Idk. I mean I'm just so nervous about asking her. I have no clue what she would say and if she says no I still want to be friends with her because like I said she's a great person.

fazer1k · 56-60, M

I think we all fear rejection a little. She may say yes, though, so you might miss out if you don't ask.

DeltaEcho · 22-25, M

😥 Ya I know... lol it shouldn't be this hard. You know?

fazer1k · 56-60, M

What's the worst thing that can happen? She says no and you can still stay friends and perhaps even try again later. She may say yes though. Ask her!

DeltaEcho · 22-25, M

Well I guess the worst thing that could happen is that she says no, I get fired for harassment for asking her, and my parents find out. Like that is the worst that could happen. Or I could die before I get to ask her. Either one.
... ok I'll think about it.

fazer1k · 56-60, M

@ajdavis: If she says no you would have to accept that, of course, otherwise it would become harassment. Presumably she has similar life and study pressures to you at the moment and she might say no for that reason. If so, you could still try asking at a later date when the circumstances are better. That's what I was thinking. Good luck, anyway.

DeltaEcho · 22-25, M

Thanks