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Will you go for a open relationship or open marriage with your mate

recently I came across a couple they have been together and living this lifestyle since past 9 years
do relationships as such survives ?
if so what keeps them together after being with different people

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PoetryNEmotion · F

Trust. Love. Acceptance. Tolerance. Clear communication. Sexual tension is gone. And variety is the spice of life.

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Gwangi · 46-50, M

@PoetryNEmotion It sounds as though you have been through quite a bit of pain, so bravo to you for working things out and coming out of this with a so.ution that works.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@Gwangi From pain emerges beauty. Like butterflies. I am fine. And a warrior princess. Thank you. Have a golden day.

Gwangi · 46-50, M

@PoetryNEmotion you too! You have my eternal admiration!

Gwangi · 46-50, M

Yes, I have one now. Very fluid. We have been together for almost 10 years as well. We have a lot in common and are best friends, so that makes a difference. Sexually adventurous, hence open. We discuss each other’s lovers all the time so always have something to talk about. Trust and communication are key.

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scottamadore2 · M

@Gwangi my concern is for relations where woman has to deal with other man
I think most of the jealousy issues occurs in such relations

Gwangi · 46-50, M

@scottamadore2 yes, that is definitely a possibility. I have told her I would watch her with another man if she really wanted me to and as long as I didn’t have to touch him, but she seems to not be interested.

scottamadore2 · M

@Gwangi I believe in your matter her broad-mind thinking is what majorly matters because she has to deal with other woman issues but in cuckolding relation ships its completely males decision and how he deals with the situation

SW-User

I can entertain the idea but I dont think there is enough in me to resist the green eyed monster in the end.

scottamadore2 · M

@SW-User yes that is what I have been trying to seek... so u believe that at some point you will feel jealous?

Miram · 31-35, F

Most probably the ability to see sex as distinct than love or love as non exclusive.

I don't know.

scottamadore2 · M

@Miram Will you be comfortable by bringing up this idea into your relationship/marriage ?

Miram · 31-35, F

@scottamadore2 it would be stressful for me currently and bad for my health. I am too possessive and selfish when it comes to him.

scottamadore2 · M

@Miram I can understand that ... possessiveness sure comes in a way
what if situation differs from this one lets assume if he is understanding,broadminded and only you are allowed to participate and chose partner ?

Fulcrum · 31-35, F

Absolutely not! If I'm only the person you want, and not the one that you need. Then what are we doing? Why commit to a relationship?

scottamadore2 · M

@Fulcrum what if he never participates ?

Fulcrum · 31-35, F

@scottamadore2 The only thing that changes is now I'm asking myself why am I with him? If he is only the person I want and not the person I need then I need to find someone else.

Virgo94 · 26-30, F

No. I don't think that is something I could do. In a way, I see why some people do it. But for me...I want the person I love to myself

summersong · F

I tried it with my ex and it didn’t work out. It very much depends on the relationship, communication, and the people involved but overall I don’t think it’s for me.

scottamadore2 · M

@summersong who messed it up you or your ex ?

summersong · F

@scottamadore2 that’s a really complicated answer. I think it was both of us tbh but as I said, I don’t think it’s the kind of relationship I could be in.

newmoon089 · 18-21, F

Neither, I don't want to be trapped in an never ending miserable fail relationship with the wrong person.

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