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Can you get nice gentle guys who are good in bed?

Got it in my head that nice men are boring in bed. By good in bed I mean they have sexual creativity and a lot of ideas and fantasies, the actual act can be worked on and perfected.
TacoCat · 26-30, M
There's like 3 billon guys in the world pretty sure one of them fits the bill
Northwest · M
I don't think nice means boring. Nice, probably means nice.

Not being nice, does not also mean porn star. Could be far from it. If your BF is 35, and is a virgin, that can be part of your issue.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Northwest it seems unbelievable now looking back. He hasn’t done a thing with anyone and he was 35.
SW-User
I think it all depends on communication, action, and experience.

I had dated girls in high school and early college and I was probably vanilla as vanilla can be.

But after dating an awesome (in every way) girl.... well... we spent a lot of time in bed. During and after our relationship, I felt more confident and fun in bed.

I think if you really like a guy, tell him what you need or guide him to it. If he can’t meet your expectations after guidance... then I’d say re-evaluate the situation.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
That’s it. No more Mr Nice Guy with you. 😜
geekoo · 41-45, M
well I thin gentleman used to be a bit less shy about tryin to get ladi trough out their entire life. and this make them less experienced in sex maybe. Think of a guy who is always goin for it . he will end up getting much more women in his bed and gain more experience.
this is just a theory of mine :)
gurlwatcher22 · 61-69, M
.…..still water runs deep.😏
SW-User
I'm sure it's possible.
jaymic64 · M
Trust me there are some good ones.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@jaymic64 he was a virgin at 35 and never kissed anyone. He was terrified of me. He was still sat on my table just not by me.
jaymic64 · M
@PaleandPolluted I’ve never met anyone like that.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@jaymic64 they clearly aren’t that interested in other people.
SW-User
Funny that. I think same about women.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@SW-User I’m a bit kinky with the right man. Lol.
SW-User
@PaleandPolluted but are nice and gentle too?
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@SW-User I think I’ve got morals and wouldn’t smack someone.
popmol · 26-30, M
probably. i try to be a nice guy and i have loads of fantasy but sadly not in the bed.
AngelKrish · 26-30, M

 
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