Can you get nice gentle guys who are good in bed?

Got it in my head that nice men are boring in bed. By good in bed I mean they have sexual creativity and a lot of ideas and fantasies, the actual act can be worked on and perfected.

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Northwest · M

I don't think nice means boring. Nice, probably means nice.

Not being nice, does not also mean porn star. Could be far from it. If your BF is 35, and is a virgin, that can be part of your issue.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@Northwest it seems unbelievable now looking back. He hasn’t done a thing with anyone and he was 35.