Can you get nice gentle guys who are good in bed?

Got it in my head that nice men are boring in bed. By good in bed I mean they have sexual creativity and a lot of ideas and fantasies, the actual act can be worked on and perfected.

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jaymic64 · M

Trust me there are some good ones.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@jaymic64 my ex was a gentle type. He was scared to sit by me, he was actually sat in the aisle of the pub instead of by me.

jaymic64 · M

@PaleandPolluted I’m not quite sure I understand his behavior. I’ve never left my girl sitting alone. Being nice or gentile is a good quality but that’s seem extreme.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@jaymic64 he was a virgin at 35 and never kissed anyone. He was terrified of me. He was still sat on my table just not by me.

jaymic64 · M

@PaleandPolluted I’ve never met anyone like that.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@jaymic64 they clearly aren’t that interested in other people.