What would you do?

Love em to their core

If they know it hurts you and they are capable of treating you so they don’t hurt you no more. They should change what they are doing, no question.

I see it involves teens.
If they respect him this shouldn’t be a problem.

Sounds a little passive aggressive to me. If a partner isn't willing to compromise then I fret for the entirety of the relationship. It sounds like it needs work,

What’s the issue? And what do you think would correct it?

They're not amazing if I'm hurting...it's only fair to have parameters in a relationship. Communication is a priority within those parameters. Without it, WE and US can't exist. Overlook the situation if the other person can't or won't deal with it, or relieve yourself of the perceived problem.

Have you discussed it with them?

Hurts you how and how much?

Can you live with it? Should you? Is it harmful to you?

Give them a good old fashioned spanking 🤔. Lol

Marriage Counseling ?

Love them anyway 😍❤