Sounds a little passive aggressive to me. If a partner isn't willing to compromise then I fret for the entirety of the relationship. It sounds like it needs work,
They're not amazing if I'm hurting...it's only fair to have parameters in a relationship. Communication is a priority within those parameters. Without it, WE and US can't exist. Overlook the situation if the other person can't or won't deal with it, or relieve yourself of the perceived problem.
@kate21 letting his kids disrespect me. Can I live with it, yes, I currently am. Should I, no, he should do more to fix it. Is it harmful...it's caused many arguments. Don't see those stopping if he doesn't do more.