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What would you do?

If someone you love can't bring themselves to correct an issue that angers and hurts you deeply, but is amazing regarding everything else??
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HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
What’s the issue? And what do you think would correct it?
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@HeavenBesideYou his kids disrespect me. He needs to discipline
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
@Wurkoutgurl How old are the kids?
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@HeavenBesideYou 17 and 19
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
@Wurkoutgurl Do they live with you? How are they being disrespectful?
Karmalives · 56-60, M
@Wurkoutgurl discipline a 17 and 19 year old? 🤔 how would you, at that age
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@HeavenBesideYou with us every other week. I speak to them, they won't speak back. They aren't very verbal, it's more their actions. Ignoring me, not doing things I ask. Younger one had me as step whore in his phone.
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
@Wurkoutgurl Honestly your best option is just to ignore them. Upsetting you is what they want. Driving a wedge is what they want. Every other weekend sounds like a good time to carry yourself off for some me time and let your husband deal with his kids, and when I say ignore them I mean it literally. Don’t speak to them unless absolutely necessary, and be out of their presence whenever possible.

Kids that age are contrary at best. Do you have children as well?
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@HeavenBesideYou yes, I have four kids. They are respectful and disciplined
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
How old are your kids? Do they live with you? @Wurkoutgurl
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@HeavenBesideYou 17 and 19
They are with us every other week
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
@Wurkoutgurl I thought you said you have 4?
Karmalives · 56-60, M
@HeavenBesideYou 😜🤐
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Karmalives · 56-60, M
@HeavenBesideYou lmao 😜