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What would you do?

If someone you love can't bring themselves to correct an issue that angers and hurts you deeply, but is amazing regarding everything else??
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If they know it hurts you and they are capable of treating you so they don’t hurt you no more. They should change what they are doing, no question.

I see it involves teens.
If they respect him this shouldn’t be a problem.
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@Aliveshock I agree completely
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Sounds like a family meeting where he asks them in front of you.
“What is the issue?”
There are ways to let them know that this stupidity stops.
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@Aliveshock we've done that. He just has a hard time following through. And so far they can't come up with a reason why they hate me...they just do.
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Then talk to him about follow up.
Don’t they respect him?
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@Aliveshock they do respect him,not me. I've talked to him over and over about it
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If they don’t do what he asks then the respect is not there.
Can they live somewhere else?
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@Aliveshock I wish! They are with their mom every other week. One left for college, but dropped out, so back with us and his mom
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Have them both leave for somewhere else. They obviously think they have a choice they don’t have.
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
@Aliveshock I don't think my husband would like it if I made them leave
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Let him know that you don’t like it when they don’t respect you.