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Lostpoet · M
Sorry dude but what could you guys possibly have in common other than sexual attraction? And if that's all you are looking for then there are a lot of 30 old prostitutes looking for a, " daddy."
I went out with a 23yearold when I was 28 and we literally had nothing in common. But she was cute though.
I went out with a 23yearold when I was 28 and we literally had nothing in common. But she was cute though.
SW-User
No. The real question is why do you feel guilty that you have to ask this.
Teignmouth · 51-55, M
No and that's a woman not a girl, be happy why are you worried about it?
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Teignmouth · 51-55, M
@Fernie yeah my hackles came up LOL
Fernie · F
@Teignmouth men don't usually catch that...you must be a keeper
Teignmouth · 51-55, M
@Bill19641111 I'm non the wiser Bill unless you mean you haven't met her
naturegirlUK · 41-45, F
Micheal Douglas-Zeta Catherine Jones, Brigitte Macron- Emmanual Macron, an example from either side why should it be wrong love is love
SW-User
Why do ya need to ask in the first place? Do you feel a little uncomfortable with it
SW-User
Yes your old enough to be her father
swirlie · 31-35, F
@SW-User
Hey, you're in denial. 😂
Hey, you're in denial. 😂
SW-User
@swirlie Lol
swirlie · 31-35, F
@SW-User
Disgusting comment, but totally predictable from someone who is deep in denial.
Disgusting comment, but totally predictable from someone who is deep in denial.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
No it's not wrong or illegal, we can't help who we fall in love with, if it's reciprocated just take it slow and anyone that gives you grief is just driven by their own stupidity..
SweetnDemented · F
She is above the legal age. If feelings mutual how can it be wrong
Fernie · F
@SweetnDemented if she were 18 it would be very creepy though
SweetnDemented · F
@Fernie Yes it wud be she a grown ass woman
Fernie · F
@SweetnDemented agreed
Datdudeblack · 36-40, M
if it feels wrong when you are together then its wrong. you both are adults.
FurryFace · 61-69, M
depends if she loves you too or if its just you , lol
SINAI · T
Just don't be creepy about it.
Follow your heart - only you know what's right to do in this situation.
SW-User
At 30 she's old enough to know better so if she likes you and you like her I see no problem...
Fernie · F
two very adult people..no
Allelse · 36-40, M
No. As long as you're both legal then enjoy yourselves.
Davis36 · 36-40, M
If you don't mind she finding a guy 30 yrs at her 53😁
DreamyCrush · F
Not wrong, but you may not have much in common.
Gracie1523 · 51-55, F
Absolutely nothing
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swirlie · 31-35, F
Go by the technical formula the French use:
That is, the perfect aged woman for a man is half the guy's age + 7 years.
For example, suppose you were 50....
50 divided by 2 = 25 + 7 = 32
The perfect match for a 50 year old male would be a 32 year old female.
Now in your case, you are 53, but let's call you 52 to make the numbers work!
52 divided by 2 = 26 + 7 = 33
The perfect match for you would be a woman who is about 33 years of age. So is a 30 year old woman a contender for your own age at this point in time? I would say she is definitely in the same ballpark as you are!
If you were a year older, 54 divided by 2 = 27 + 7 = 34 for a perfect female lover. But if you were a year older and clocking in at 54, she would be 31 years of age.
But look at it this way too... in 7 years from now, you will be 60.
Therefore, 60 divided by 2 = 30 + 7 = 37 year old perfect female lover.
BUT!!!! in 7 years from now, your friend will be 37!!! So on your 60th birthday, your current friend will attain exactly the perfect age for you as your lover!
That is, the perfect aged woman for a man is half the guy's age + 7 years.
For example, suppose you were 50....
50 divided by 2 = 25 + 7 = 32
The perfect match for a 50 year old male would be a 32 year old female.
Now in your case, you are 53, but let's call you 52 to make the numbers work!
52 divided by 2 = 26 + 7 = 33
The perfect match for you would be a woman who is about 33 years of age. So is a 30 year old woman a contender for your own age at this point in time? I would say she is definitely in the same ballpark as you are!
If you were a year older, 54 divided by 2 = 27 + 7 = 34 for a perfect female lover. But if you were a year older and clocking in at 54, she would be 31 years of age.
But look at it this way too... in 7 years from now, you will be 60.
Therefore, 60 divided by 2 = 30 + 7 = 37 year old perfect female lover.
BUT!!!! in 7 years from now, your friend will be 37!!! So on your 60th birthday, your current friend will attain exactly the perfect age for you as your lover!