Is it wrong
Is it wrong to be 53 and be in love with a girl who's 30
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swirlie · F
Go by the technical formula the French use:
That is, the perfect aged woman for a man is half the guy's age + 7 years.
For example, suppose you were 50....
50 divided by 2 = 25 + 7 = 32
The perfect match for a 50 year old male would be a 32 year old female.
Now in your case, you are 53, but let's call you 52 to make the numbers work!
52 divided by 2 = 26 + 7 = 33
The perfect match for you would be a woman who is about 33 years of age. So is a 30 year old woman a contender for your own age at this point in time? I would say she is definitely in the same ballpark as you are!
If you were a year older, 54 divided by 2 = 27 + 7 = 34 for a perfect female lover. But if you were a year older and clocking in at 54, she would be 31 years of age.
But look at it this way too... in 7 years from now, you will be 60.
Therefore, 60 divided by 2 = 30 + 7 = 37 year old perfect female lover.
BUT!!!! in 7 years from now, your friend will be 37!!! So on your 60th birthday, your current friend will attain exactly the perfect age for you as your lover!
That is, the perfect aged woman for a man is half the guy's age + 7 years.
For example, suppose you were 50....
50 divided by 2 = 25 + 7 = 32
The perfect match for a 50 year old male would be a 32 year old female.
Now in your case, you are 53, but let's call you 52 to make the numbers work!
52 divided by 2 = 26 + 7 = 33
The perfect match for you would be a woman who is about 33 years of age. So is a 30 year old woman a contender for your own age at this point in time? I would say she is definitely in the same ballpark as you are!
If you were a year older, 54 divided by 2 = 27 + 7 = 34 for a perfect female lover. But if you were a year older and clocking in at 54, she would be 31 years of age.
But look at it this way too... in 7 years from now, you will be 60.
Therefore, 60 divided by 2 = 30 + 7 = 37 year old perfect female lover.
BUT!!!! in 7 years from now, your friend will be 37!!! So on your 60th birthday, your current friend will attain exactly the perfect age for you as your lover!