How physically motivated are women?

I am in a marriage that has gone sideways. I have gained weight and my wife doesn't like it. I suspect however that if she still loved me it would be less important that I have put on weight. That is an assumption of course. I am assuming if ahe still loved me like she did she would see me as she wants to see me.

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BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

Physically motivated to do what, exactly? My physical motivation to lift weights is very high. My physical motivation to go to the DMV is nonexistent.

Genieinabottle · 51-55, M

@BlueMetalChick I like the way you think. Physically motivated for emotional connection.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@BlueMetalChick 🤣

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@iamnikki I had to go one time when I was 16 to take my fucking driving test and I swear to god it was about as fun as smacking your head into a door. I had to wait for three and a half hours in a big room full of angry Black people and weird old bird women and screaming babies while an automated voice in the ceiling called out random combinations of letters and numbers, and every time I went up to a window they told me I filled out the wrong form.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@BlueMetalChick no, the dmv isn't fun. Not all black people are angry, I'm not. You can renew online like I do. Haven't been to dmv since 16

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@iamnikki Lol I know not all Black people are angry, it just seems like for some reason all the people in the Laramie neighborhood here in Chicago are Black and constantly angry, and there's lots of weird old bird women too.