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I told my guy friend we’re just friends.

But every time we hang out now he’ll take me somewhere secluded and say “why did you lead me here silly girl?” I’m sick of it and I’m wondering why he’s putting it on me and saying I took us there?!! No I didn’t!

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HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F

Next time suggest going at a café or something and don't walk around, or if you want to walk try to not get carried away by him and suggest crowded places of your own. If he finds another ways to flirt with you, just point it out and talk to him about it clearly, if he still doesn't get it, I think you wouldn't really want to be seeing him again 😒

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sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@HannibalAteMeOut I know exactly what you mean. We do not seek violence, but nor do we shrink from it when it comes calling.

HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F

@sarabee1995 I couldn't have said it better 😆

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@HannibalAteMeOut Been there couple times unfortunately. 😞

SW-User

He's starting to sound like a serious creep if you keep telling him you just wanna be friends. Doesn't sound like he plans on respecting your boundaries any time soon.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

Ugh! It’s so annoying too because he’s my best friend!@SW-User

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@SW-User This ^^

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xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@RodneyTrotter I always forget that he’s gonna do that thinking everything is all in my head. Then he ends up doing it again.

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@xRockGlossPrincessx You need more confidence in your own perceptions.

abe182 · 46-50, M

Did you give him a choice to be just friends or was that solely your decision?

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sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@abe182 And that worries me for her.

abe182 · 46-50, M

@sarabee1995 right.

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@abe182 👍

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

Start "leading him" for real into public, non-secluded areas. When he steers the walk away from these areas, plant your feet and ask, "Where are you going?"

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sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@xRockGlossPrincessx 👍

Always stay aware of your surroundings and where you are walking to. He is showing signs that he does not respect your words or your boundaries. Don't end up in secluded areas with him. Okay, girl? Be safe.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@sarabee1995 Okay I’ll be more careful thanks!

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@xRockGlossPrincessx 🤗

Salix75 · 46-50, F

Sounds like an idiot.

Either not mature enough to make his intentions clear or just being dumb.

Would be a red flag for me. Where does blaming you end? Will he say "oh you made me kiss you" or worse?

Next time he tries leading you away, don't go.

nedkelly · 61-69, M

Sounds like you are giving him the wrong messages, or simply he he reads the messages wrong

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@nedkelly Or he simply is not respecting the clear meaning behind her words.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@nedkelly No! I’m not doing anything like that, but it looks like I’ll have to try harder.

Theriverdreams · 18-21, F

Hit him with a mallet 🔨

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Theriverdreams · 18-21, F

@EllieTheKittyKat 😉

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@Theriverdreams lmao he’s my bff.

Theriverdreams · 18-21, F

@xRockGlossPrincessx rubber mallet?

EllieTheKittyKat · F

Pepper spray him, kick him in the balls and run, he sounds crazy tbh 😮

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

Crazy? D: @EllieTheKittyKat

EllieTheKittyKat · F

@xRockGlossPrincessx if some dude leaded me to some secluded area I'd be scared I was going to be skinned or something, that's so creepy 😟

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xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

My best and only true friend. @yondu

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SW-User

seems like he is just kidding around or maybe flirting

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@SW-User I got that feeling in my gut... I really hope he’s not flirting!

MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M

Sounds like he still wants more than just friends

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@MURD3RM0NK3Y -.-

RainBisou · F

Sounds like he wants you to change your mind

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

Idk maybe! @RainBisou

ZenKitzune · F

sounds very awkward

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@ZenKitzune It is! It’s soooo uncomfortable!

ZenKitzune · F

@xRockGlossPrincessx give him a punch in a secluded spot :)

lou502008 · 61-69, M

dont let him lead you away next time

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@lou502008 I’ll try...

SpaceAce · 31-35, M

Stop following him

tenente · 100+, M

creepy. keep ur distance

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@xRockGlossPrincessx He obviously wants more than friendship. Tell him if he wants friendship, he should not try to be alone with you. Don't let him lead you into those kinds of situations.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@greenmountaingal Okay. :(

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@xRockGlossPrincessx Are you sure you have really examined your own feelings? If the thought of not being alone with him makes you sad, then maybe you [i]are[/i] interested in him romantically. The best way to avoid sex or romantic behaviors is to not be alone with the person. Being alone with him signals to him that you won't really mind flirtation or more.

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