I told my guy friend we’re just friends.

@abe182 Did you mean he should have some kind of right to choose "more than friends" and she should just have to go along with that? I'm not understanding your comment?

She said clearly that she just wants to be friends.

He keeps poking around that perimeter looking for more.

That's a problem.

@abe182 It should be up to the both of us. He’s not my type and I therefore can’t date him.

@sarabee1995 the flip side. What if he wanted more but can't turn his feelings off. But now he's just friends with someone who likes. I'm only saying that sometimes we assume that friend zoning people is OK and it really isn't sometimes. Best to let the guy go. My opinion.

@xRockGlossPrincessx right so don't go to restaurants, sounds like a date but not. He's getting confused.

@abe182 We should always be honest with our feelings. I believe that to be an undeniable fact.

She's told him that she likes him [b] as a friend and nothing more.[/b] The next step is up to him. If he wants to stay in her life as a friend, then great. If he does not, then he needs to be honest with his feelings and say so and then stop seeing her.

There is no option where he is allowed to steer her to secluded areas and flirt with her. That is seriously alarming behavior on many levels.

@sarabee1995 yep I agree with everything you said. Honesty!! And it sounds like someone isn't being honest (guy).

@abe182 And that worries me for her.

@sarabee1995 right.

@abe182 👍