I told my guy friend we’re just friends.

But every time we hang out now he’ll take me somewhere secluded and say “why did you lead me here silly girl?” I’m sick of it and I’m wondering why he’s putting it on me and saying I took us there?!! No I didn’t!

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tenente · 100+, M

creepy. keep ur distance

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

I mean he’s not really being a creep though.... is he? @tenente

Randall · 26-30, M

@xRockGlossPrincessx Yes. Yes he is.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@xRockGlossPrincessx He obviously wants more than friendship. Tell him if he wants friendship, he should not try to be alone with you. Don't let him lead you into those kinds of situations.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@greenmountaingal Okay. :(

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@xRockGlossPrincessx Are you sure you have really examined your own feelings? If the thought of not being alone with him makes you sad, then maybe you [i]are[/i] interested in him romantically. The best way to avoid sex or romantic behaviors is to not be alone with the person. Being alone with him signals to him that you won't really mind flirtation or more.