I just don't care anymore

I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you. A few months ago I went through the same experience. My partner of 7 years had a constant stream of infidelity and I gave her 3 chances to change her ways, none with success. It's unbelievable to me that I did everything in my power to change for her, but when she had to change for me... She simply couldn't... I came to the same conclusion though. In the end we have to choose ourselves, our own mental health and our needs.

Here's to hoping our next partners are forever 🥂 If you ever want to talk to a random stranger about anything and everything, I offer my services 💙

Well, you’re still going through the pain and wanting to go back to what you had. You have to move forward. Not backwards. And don’t get stuck. Remember nothing ventured. Nothing gained. You’ll find true love. And happiness. It’s trial and error. Everything worth having comes with some risk. Otherwise we have nothing. That’s true for relationships, and everything in life. Take a step back. Enjoy your summer, but keep an open mind.

Please don’t be so hard on yourself. Giving someone a second chance isn’t stupid—it’s brave. It means you believe in people, in growth, in love. That’s not naïve, that’s human. You were trying to follow your heart, which makes sense—because hearts are hopeful and generous and not afraid to risk something real.
But it hurts like hell when that trust isn’t honored. I hear how angry and tired you are. And you’re right to feel that way. You’re not weak for caring—you’re strong for getting up again, even if your knees shake from the fall.
It’s okay to take a step back from love right now. Protecting your peace doesn’t mean you’re giving up; it means you’re reclaiming yourself. Being alone can be painful, but it’s also a place where healing begins. Where you get to call the shots, rebuild on your terms, and rediscover what you want—not just what you’re willing to tolerate.

Hopefully, you will find true love.

I wish I knew what to say in our defense but I know only too well a lot of men will disappoint and leave you like this. I've long felt sorry for a woman's romantic journey because it crosses a wilderness of risk and pain. we are so blessed to be men attracted to women rather than vice versa, we don't face anything like the same winter of malcontent women do, and it's not as many would accuse because you're basically impossible to please, maybe, I doubt though. It's more that my own kind sucks so much. Take comfort though, some of us are trying very hard not to be that.

It means you are playing the game wrongly being unable to draw a line between yourself & the other. Maybe you are trying to rush into things, but this time try to stretch the relationship so it lasts long.

You want to see the good in everyone. Don’t want to think someone doesn’t want you.

You will heal, I can promise you that.

Single has it’s good points… less stress for starters

one of those human condition things.

Scorched 😬

We’ve all been there.

You must do what is best for you; physically, emotionally, mentally.

good! don't give him another chance!

Blonde !

At least there won’t be a third time.

I’ll go out on a limb here, but if someone fucks up bad enough; there should be no second chances.