Please don’t be so hard on yourself. Giving someone a second chance isn’t stupid—it’s brave. It means you believe in people, in growth, in love. That’s not naïve, that’s human. You were trying to follow your heart, which makes sense—because hearts are hopeful and generous and not afraid to risk something real.
But it hurts like hell when that trust isn’t honored. I hear how angry and tired you are. And you’re right to feel that way. You’re not weak for caring—you’re strong for getting up again, even if your knees shake from the fall.
It’s okay to take a step back from love right now. Protecting your peace doesn’t mean you’re giving up; it means you’re reclaiming yourself. Being alone can be painful, but it’s also a place where healing begins. Where you get to call the shots, rebuild on your terms, and rediscover what you want—not just what you’re willing to tolerate.
Hopefully, you will find true love.
