I just don't care anymore

Twice I gave him second chances. Why am I so stupid and naive? Why do I keep going with what my heart wants and not what my brain tells me? This time he's dead to me. I hate that I set myself up to get stepped on again. I don't want to fall in love or be in a relationship anymore it's always the same outcome. Alone sucks but it's better than this

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sancy · 31-35, MNew

I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you. A few months ago I went through the same experience. My partner of 7 years had a constant stream of infidelity and I gave her 3 chances to change her ways, none with success. It's unbelievable to me that I did everything in my power to change for her, but when she had to change for me... She simply couldn't... I came to the same conclusion though. In the end we have to choose ourselves, our own mental health and our needs.

Here's to hoping our next partners are forever 🥂 If you ever want to talk to a random stranger about anything and everything, I offer my services 💙