My wife cheated and got pregnant

@IIDavid87II I understand the pain. I'm infertile myself and I'm unlikely to conceive naturally - so IVF and a donor egg could be my only option.

Sure, the child won't be mine, but it will still be a part of my man and I would still love the child just as much.

Same with step children. My life has taught me what I don't want to be as a parent and step parent.

@HootyTheNightOwl I'm so sorry to hear that.

We didn't get to testing either of us to see if there was a problem. If it is an issue with me I always liked to think I could put my ego aside to raise a child either from a donor or who we adopted.

The pain now is more because my wife turned to another man and got pregnant. As much as I thought I could let go of my ego and raise a child with unconditional love, I'm struggling because of how this child was created.

@IIDavid87II Its not your child you have no responsibility to raise the child.

@sspec No he has a right shag another women and get even its his right know.

@eMortal We both want to work through it. After trying for so long she can't bring herself to consider an abortion.

@IIDavid87II Look at it this way, the other guy was just sperm donor although she did it behind your back. Right now everyone on social media will tell you to leave her but If you guys still love each other, stay.

@eMortal That's what I am working toward trying to do. I love her dearly, I know everyone will say leave but that's not what I want to do. Thanks for your support, really appreciate it,

@Spotpot you have issues

@iamonfire696 Just because she is women doesent mean she dont deserve to be insulted because of her own actions.

@Spotpot this is not your marriage. You are really immature if you feel you need to insult a stranger.

@Spotpot what’s wrong with you? He needs to block you.

@iamonfire696 I dont go soft on cheaters just because they are women.

@Spotpot she’s not your wife

@iamonfire696 How do you think it feels that way?

@IIDavid87II women only have a chance of getting pregnant about 5 days a month when ovulation occurs.

A woman can manage not to get pregnant if she pays attention to when she ovulates. If you have been trying for a baby, your wife knows when she’s ovulating. She went out when she was ovulating and had unprotected sex.

What outcome did she expect would happen?

@IIDavid87II Your wife is a whore realise that.