I feel scared to date men again ! I got abused and betrayed by most people in my life . What...

daydeeo · 61-69, M

Do you have a gf whose judgement you trust? A second opinion can be a good thing. She might see some red flags that you are missing.

Prince0217 · M

I hear you.

GoFish ·

Just take it slow learn about who they are before dating them eh?

ProfessorSwatz · 31-35, M

I'm so sorry you went through all of that and the way life be going these days, more and more of these kinds of men are showing their heads and harming and luring in unsuspecting women and making the world crazier for us. I'm so sorry. Can't apologize on behalf my gender but I do hope you'll be able to find some way to heal anyway possible so u can find some sort of peace within this wild world we are living in.

HumanEarth · F

What @QuietReverie says is spot on. Its solid advice

QuietReverie

Heal what caused you to attract men like that.

If you don’t, you’ll just find another one in a different body.

CactusJackManson · 51-55, M

Where are you picking up guys, prison?

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

That is sad, but I have had the same experience with dating women. Never had a woman to try and murder me though. But the lies betrayal deceit and being cheated on has led me to not trust and to stop trying to leave me single 18 years and not dating the past 12 years.

Northwest · M

What would drive some people to try murdering you? Did the police get involved?

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Take one step at a time and focus on being self-aware.

Magicianzini · M

Don't be with anyone until you fix your problems - the ones that caused you to pick abusive people in the first place.