I feel scared to date men again !

I got abused and betrayed by most people in my life .

What can I do because I crave a partner in my life .
I am scared to be abused and betaryed again .
Some even tried to murder me and involved innocent pets/animals in personal fights !

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Prince0217 · M

I hear you.

GoFish ·

Just take it slow learn about who they are before dating them eh?

HumanEarth · F

What @QuietReverie says is spot on. Its solid advice

QuietReverie

Heal what caused you to attract men like that.

If you don’t, you’ll just find another one in a different body.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@QuietReverie i believe self-hate, kindness , self sacrifical nature, being nice and low self esteem.

QuietReverie

@sahi81

Yes, you abandon yourself to keep them happy, work on yourself, heal your childhood abandonment wounds, start by learning to love yourself, self respect and set boundaries.

Northwest · M

What would drive some people to try murdering you? Did the police get involved?

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@Northwest own self-hate projected onto me , cultural issues/fights and jealousy.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@Northwest I tried , but police didn't take seriously as I am not in emergency when I reported the incident later.

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Take one step at a time and focus on being self-aware.

daydeeo · 61-69, M

Do you have a gf whose judgement you trust? A second opinion can be a good thing. She might see some red flags that you are missing.

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